I hear you and you're right; but isn't that a bit selfish? (I know Solas selfishness/selfless debate has been brought up quite a bit) Please don't understand that I'm calling you selfish, I'm talking about Solas, I woudln't dare to give an opinion on your personal life. I mean, he loves you but he can't be with you and also he doesn't want to be the one to tell you so (I guess our poor egg's mind is a mess) So what does he do? Muster his courage and tell you that you should definitely stop? No, he waits until you're the one to break it; and if you don't do, he waits until he can't delay the breakup no more.
Dammit I'm feeling bad for him now xD
Oh yes it is selfish and at the same time isn't.
I was deeply conflicted about it, at some point I even thought that maybe I can just pretend forever (but I am really extreme, I really don't like hurting people so I go to great lengths to avoid it. What usually happens is that it backfires at some point or that I just hate myself for doing something I don't want to do. Sometimes it even works out and everything turns out great
butthatrarelyhappens).
He is a person, he can have flaws, I think it adds to his character. He knows he was selfish (if you speak with him after the breakup and get mad at him he says he was selfish and that you deserve better, maybe he even mentions it more than once, I can't really recall).
Edit: some part of me wonders if he has hope that it may work out at the end, maybe he is deluding himself so he can stay selfish with her.





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