Brainsquirt.
So I just went through Cole's personal quest again and changed my mind about the choice >.< From spirit to human!
I've decided that the debate is as much about Solas/Fen'Harel as it is about Cole. He teeters on the edge between who he wants to be, too.
> Solas is perhaps overly invested in convincing Cole that he is a spirit? (convincing himself that he doesn't belong either?)
> As Cole is describing his experience of 'crossing over', Solas is staring silently (having had a similar experience?) ... "All too fragile when it's efforts to help proved to be in vain".
> "He made himself human. Humans change. They get hurt, and they heal". I can't appreciate Varric's line more in this context. It seems exactly what Solas could do with. Working through layers of anguish which haven't left him for 1000+ years and healing.
> Imagine if the whole of the elvehn race resisted change.... growth. Healing. If Solas/Fen'Harel is the example, show him there is beauty in that too.
So basically "get over it, Solas/Fen'Harel" is my new answer
The race-gating... my Trevelyan wants to bone Solas so bad. It sounded like they just ran out of time/resources when implementing the romance. I came to accept that.
And I was so sorry to read about people's real life heartbreaks being brought up again by the Solas feels. (My own experiences are similar but I won't go into detail). Amongst the angst there is also a sense of "well played bioware. You know exactly how to get people to throw money at you" which, is pretty cynical I know. I've also been playing these games for years but only recently made this account because of this Solas phenomenon (?) it seems this really was the 'straw that broke the camel's back' for me ;-;
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