I think it also depends on how you played Lavellan. If you played her being reluctant and not wanting to do any of this, angst is more understandable. If all she wants to do is do what has to be done and then go back to her life (which we all know is never going to happen), Solas leaving would probably hurt since he was so close to her...just a thought.
This was my Lavellan, She wasn't desperate to get back to the Clan but she really was not comfortable with being the head of a big organisation like the Inquisition and hoped that, once the breach was closed and Cory defeated, she could move on with Solas who was her best friend as well as lover. Continuing to lead the inquisition was not her desire at all. I felt that she was quite private and shared little with the companions, so didn't really want to talk with them in the aftermath so headed out on her own except for her horse to get her head together and decide what to do next.
Its not possible for me to RP Solas with the choices I'd make, it would have all come to an end (at the latest) when he made the 'kinder in the long run' comment, that would have required a serious talk that would have required a full explanation and he'd have been told to gtf if nothing was forthcoming, I wouldn't stand for any of that ****
. He'd also have had plenty of time for his painting, he'd have been well out of the party.
Edit - also, its great that @Brass_Buckles thread on heartbreak romances is getting so much support in the Feedback section, over 100 likes on OP! 
Modifié par wildannie, 03 janvier 2015 - 02:31 .