So I have a question for everyone about Solas' appearance.
Were you physically attracted to him when you first saw him (in-game or pre-game) or did you gradually warmed up to his looks?
I'm still trying to catch up with this thread but I'd thought I'd answer this while doing so. 
When I first saw him, the only thing I thought was, "Okay, a bald elf companion." Then later on, I heard he was made into a love interest for female elves and thought, "Oh, okay, so elf ladies get to romance baldy elf. But he's no Fenris or Zevran in terms of looks so would they even consider going for him?"
I admit, I thought he did look a bit odd. Bald, long face, angular features, rather droopy eyes... Yeah, I wasn't even thinking of romancing him. (Cullen and Blackwall were my first choices)
Then I met him in-game, heard that chuckle and that, "Was that a serious question?" line, and that was when I started to think that he was actually pretty cute in a rather charmingly nerdy way. Cute enough to make me consider romancing him. (I then had the dilemma of trying to decide between Cullen, Blackwall, and now Solas.)
Blah blah blah, Fade-tongue happened and you know the rest.
So I could say that his looks grew on me over time. It was more of his personality, how he carried himself, and the sound of his soothing voice that made me attracted to him. Now I see Solas as the most beautiful man in DA:I (well, aside from Cullen for obvious reasons).