So I have a question for everyone about Solas' appearance.
Were you physically attracted to him when you first saw him (in-game or pre-game) or did you gradually warmed up to his looks?
The first picture I saw of him was this:
and I thought he had a pretty striking face (all those angles!), but I wasn't sure how I felt about the lack of hair. I don't generally mind baldness, but I had some bad associations with those dreadful hairless elves in Kirkwall from DA2. I also thought he looked much darker/meaner than he actually turned out (I didn't read character descriptions before release, wanted to go in with a blank slate).
I was still completely undecided on which LI to go for until we left Haven. I found Solas' "grey" views on magic interesting, but his dialogue about hanging out in the fade all the time growing up made me feel he was maybe a bit... out of touch with the real world. It was when the epic finding Skyhold scene played that I went, "hell yes, going to romance that guy". And the point where I fell in love with him was in the fade, the way his expression turns all soft when he looks at Lavellan just melted my heart a little. I did a reload and kissed Cullen (for science!) afterwards just to try it, but it didn't tug at the heartstrings the same, y'know?
That's one thing that really amazes me about the Bioware romances - they work scarily like real-world relationships, where someone you didn't really notice before turns into the most desirable person ever - because you got to know them better and suddenly something happens that makes you feel the whole world change 