May I ask what your guys reason was to play as an elf?
Most people seem to like human PCs better, so what made you roll a Lavellan?
I usually play humans. My first Warden in DA:O was a human mage. She did goodie two shoes things and stayed with Alistair, who left with her to be in the Gray Wardens (Yep, I had to choose between Hawke and Alistair on my first playthrough for the YOU KNOW WHAT quest in DA:I)
After I played through the game, I really wanted to try out another character. I tried several, but ended up choosing an elven mage as my Canon. She romanced Zev and they rode off into the sunset together and kept Loghain alive because he's a radical dude.
I never really thought I felt an affinity towards elves. In my head, I always think of them as annoying. "Oh, I'm not a grown up until I'm 100 years old!" "OH I'm so magical and special and I like NATURE!" Blah blah bleh. Maybe I always considered them to be the Twi'leks of Fantasy; pretty to look at but borrrringggg. But then as these DA games kept progressing, I found myself hanging out with the elves more. I can't stay away from our Broody McBrooderson, Fenris, Merrill is SO ADORABLE, and on the whole, a lot of the elven characters in the DA universe are so dynamic and interesting. The Zathrian reveal in DA:O is one of my favorite moments.
When I heard that one of the characters was race gated in DA:I, I was like "Aw, crap, I guess I gotta play an elf to ensure I have the most options for sexytimes," (even though I thought Solas looked strange and I had no intention of romancing him). I had no intention of playing an elf in this game until I heard that. I think also in my brain, I have a strong dislike for authority and oppression IRL, so of course when I found an entire culture of people who have been murdered and systematically oppressed, a part of me flicks on and is like "OH YEAH SHEMS? TRY PUTTING THIS KNIFE EAR IN AN ALIENAGE!"
As of now, I think the elven PC in this game is the best choice of any. I have played humans and dwarves, which also have their own flavor, but something about being an elf in this game feels more important, and I felt this way even before the stinger at the end of the game.