I never managed to get into Skyrim. I think I ran around semi-aimlessly for about half an hour before I realized I had no idea why I was expected to care about the world or my character's place in it. Closed it up, never bothered again.
Did I miss anything that'd justify giving it another chance?
As much as I enjoyed Skyrim, I actually find it really hard to sell it. Morrowind and Oblivion on the other hand? Oh man. So much love for those. The faction quests in Oblivion are the best. The Dark Brotherhood questline is a better story than some whole games I've played. Oooh Lucien Lachance. What a strange man to make me feel feelings.
If I could erase my memory of one game, so I can enjoy it for the first time again. It'd be Oblivion. I loved going in and not having a clue what I was doing or where I was going. Just forging my own path and getting lost in the characters and surroundings. That kind of excitement is hard to come by. Also, Shivering Isles DLC is how you make a good DLC. The Skyrim DLC was all kinda, meh. Although giving me my favourite Morrowind music back was nice.
TES games do have my favourite music in the gaming world though. DAI really did well with Trevor Morris, although it's a shame I tend not to hear any of it in the actual game D: was never a big lover of the previous DA soundtracks.
I didn't really mind the fetch quests, to be honest, in both DA:I and the TES games (hell, I'd fetch anything for Sean Bean
).
Ah, but now you're making me want to play Oblivion and Skyrim again.
I agree with you about those Oblivion gates though. I'd rather close the rifts in DA:I than close those Oblivion gates. 
Poor Bean. Even in videogames he dies 
Actually, now I've realised a big similarity between DAI and TES games. Beginning the game under arrest. Morrowind, Oblivion and Skyrim all start with you under arrest or in prison, before something happens to get you on your path to heroism. DAI takes that same route. At least you have an obvious reason for getting out of it, and not 'Sir Patrick Stewart has a dream you are special.' Aha. Oh Oblivion. You crack me up.
Now I'm trying to remember how Kingdoms of Amalur starts. For another open world fantasy comparison. Man, my memory of that game is hazy.