This is my canon young Solas. I just love the hair style. The hair in the front makes him look extra playful. Also, remember that he is a redhead.

http://falsesecurity...t/105242675519/
I think his hair would be a slightly darker red but yesssssssssss. This is my favorite drawing of him with hair.
Could try to take some if you had an idea where to find a good sampling of it? I run the game on ultra on PC.
Uhhhmmm... you can try getting a screenshot of the note Felix gives the Inquisitor when you talk to Alexius in Redcliffe? There's a split second where its the only (and biggest) thing on screen, and we know what it translates to. It'll be easy to tell if it's just gibberish or if it's actual writing using something that already has a translation.
Cause it kinda is more oc.
Sorry to say, but IMO, there is no such thing as OOC when it comes to the Warden, the Inquisitor, or even Hawke. They are what the player makes them, and while there are restrictions to just how unique you can make their personalities in-game, nothing is truly canon regarding them. You might not see your Lavellan(s) as being a dom, but other people are perfectly justified in seeing their Lavellan(s) that way.
But why are grey wardens grey?
B-because... I don't actually know. Probably just because they're referred to as the Grey Wardens, but I don't remember what the Grey is supposed to represent, if anything.
Also, people say the "many eyes" thing is a reference to Solas but y'know... the Inquisitor sees the Nightmare demon and its little terrors as spiders, so. I think that's a reference to the spiders chasing them out of the Fade.