I get what you're saying, but if it's true that in DAO mages were too sympathetic, I don't feel the same for the Dalish. If you're a human/dwarf they literally treat you like you're trash and do not deserve to be there. This is one of the reasons why they were never very popular among fans, or at least I think it's why I have seen many threads/posts hating on them in the past.
Seriously, BioWare already did a great job as presenting the Dalish as unlikable. The fact that they feel the need to go further and make them even more unlikable than they already have worries me, because they were already in the red when Origins started out. I'm starting to feel they just flat out want players to hate the Dalish completely, which goes against the "moral grey" ground they claim to want to present most conflicts as.
It's sad because I never cared much for the Dalish until I played their origin in DAO, now I love them and I find their history to be tragic. After DA:I it's even more sad, since we learn that pretty much everything they know is a lie.
I keep seeing people say that, but to be honest, I don't see it that way. I mean, just look at what the Dalish got right!
- The Dalish believe elves were once immortal - it turns out they were right. (And it wasn't from blood magic like Zathrien.)
- They believe Arlathan was a vast, beautiful, advanced empire filled with magic and wonder - Solas reveals they were correct.
- They believe their kingdom fell to betrayal from within which left the elven people vulnerable to conquer from Tevinter when their gods didn't answer them - Abelas reveals there is truth to that. (Although he reveals specific details like Fen'Harel being directly responsible were incorrect).
- Some stories say Fen'Harel tricked and locked up their gods - party banter with Solas and Cole implies there might be truth to that. (Cole "They sleep, masked in a mirror, hiding, hurting, and to wake them--" Solas: "What if you wake up in the future and the world you created was worse than the one you sought to change?")
- Some stories say their gods abandoned them for not being truly elven - if a Dalish Inquisitor calls Flemeth/Mythal out for not helping the people, she reveals she really has abandoned them and doesn't feel they're worthy of saving. (Ouch; that was kind of the story I was hoping wasn't true...)
- The Dalish believe the vallaslin are markings with symbols that revere specific gods - Solas reveals this is correct. They simply forgot the extra detail that vallaslin are markings nobles carved into their slaves to revere the god they worshiped.
While the Dalish got specific details wrong, for the most part I was surprised by how much of the big picture they got correct.
My Lavellan is strongly dedicated to the Dalish and discovering her people past, and she never once in the game felt like, "We Dalish got it wrong!" or "What we believe is based on a lie!" If anything, she felt vindicated, invigorated. "Wow, those stories really were true!" or "Our stories really are based on a grain of truth!"
I don't know. Maybe I just see the world differently, but I'm surprised by how many players say "everything the Dalish believe is based on a lie." It wasn't a lie, they just didn't know. But I still think they got the big picture right even if little details were missing or mixed up.