Haha, exactly, very well put. But actually I find very troubling with this character: with all his intelligence, rationalisation etc. he also acts emotionally and somehow I have a feeling he does not allow himself to accept the decisions of his emotional part.
I mean... I am pretty sure the Great Betrayal started with emotions, probably raising anger on injustice in ancient Arlathan (speculating here), result: guilt and sorrow. Solavellan: definately he's torn apart, then he invests emotionally, then breaks up, result: even more torn apart, guilt and sorrow.
What I don't get is why such a smart person would not rationalize his emotions too and just... accept them and their consequences?
Okay, I feel like I maybe "get" him because I think that on an emotional level, he and I are pretty similar. Like, honestly. I feel extremely deeply... Which... Basically (from a psychological perspective) really means that my brain overshoots me with hormones/dopamine/adrenaline/what have you when I am presented with a stimulus that ellicits an emotional reaction (I majored in behavioral psychology. What do you want? Lol) So I have a harder time controlling my emotions because they are, in a sense, harder to control. Now obvuously I cannot give Solas an fMRI to see what is going on in there, but he does portray the same "Romulan trying to pretend he's a Vulcan" persona that I have, where most of the time he is cool, calm, collected, speaks intelligently... My husband says I come across as kind of arrogant, too, when I am like this... But present him with something he is passionate about, all bets are off. He just feels very deeply and has the tendency, in those times, to be more emotional and act more impulsively. And in the moment, I usually end up just saying "**** it, let me just have this emotion." Only to think back on it later and say "I wish I was a Vulcan." Sorry for the Star Trek analogies.
In other, non-Solas related news-- I am incredibly depressed right now. I just found out that my favorite boss is quitting and his last day is going to be Monday. I cried. He has not only been an amazing manager, he has also been a really good friend. I will miss him so much,