Here...have an art...
http://rauvven.devia...Harel-512771751
Wow it's amazing. Dark, but gorgeous.
I don't think it "appeals" to me as much as doesn't bother me. Don't they call each other those terms in-game? I could be remembering wrong but I'm almost sure she refers to him as haharen early, and she da'len at skyhold. But regardless I don't care what people put in ff because that's their business, I don't have to read it.
Oh don't misunderstand me, I don't read ff, I learned about it here; it's like banters between Solas and Sera: I don't have to put up with them, but I read them on the thread and didn't like them. It's not that I'm terribly annoyed by the hahren-da'len thing, it's just an idea I don't like.
They call each other that in one of the first conversations in Haven, but I don't recall them ever using those terms after that.