He's like the Doctor~ don't travel alone 
Yep, exactly like the Doctor indeed!
I still maintain that the redemption arc is the stronger one. Seriously, the guy can only go through so much crap when it's just ridiculous. Sort of like Cullen, solas just needs a happy ending(romance or no). Though...come to think of it a redemption arc may include self-sacrifice at the end. So...you know.
Agreed. And I'll honestly sacrifice my Inquisitor if that means I can save him. That's all I want, save the damn egg from himself.
It's utterly frustrating and painful, when as the inquisitor, you saved pretty much everybody's behinds, but the person you care and love the most? Nah, you couldn't.
This. More than anything, more than he and my Lavellan getting their happily-ever-after ending, I just want Solas to be ok. Patrick Weekes said that he made the romance specifically to showcase Solas' tragedy, and it worked. My Lavellan is young and spirited. She's not the type of girl to sink down into death because a man leaves her. She'll be ok. I'm not entirely sure Solas will be ok...
If I relate with my inquisitor, she'll be most likely spirit-broken about this. To the point she'd ask Cole to make her forget, or ask Morrigan or whoever, to teach her to go into Uthenera.
The game emphasize a LOT about the fact that your quizzie is special to Solas, that she gives him hope, that she's a breath of fresh air and all.
But the thing is, Solas is all that if not more to my quizzie. The fact he exists, think like he does, and see things the way he does, makes my quizzie question everything under a new light, one with hope and brightness, one that she desperately needed to keep on having faith towards a better world.
It was not a one-way thing, she sadly needed him more to keep on trying to make things better. So if she sees she absolutely can't save him at all, it'll definitely crush her. Hard.
This situation hits close to home, if I'm being honest. Being in a relationship with someone you can't save from themselves, despite all your trying, patience, love and caring, is quite the most disheartening thing ever. The feelings of helplessness, failure and sadness are overwhelming. Even to this day, I'm not over it. Meh, fck it.