Same here. At the very least, I'll take the pulse of the fan angst.
It's too bad, because thus far all the things that I've spoiled for myself in Dragon Age are things that, in hindsight, I would rather have experienced unspoiled. But I will admit to still being a bit gunshy after ME3; the original ending was partially spoiled for me, and it would have been SOOOOO much worse if I hadn't been braced for it.
I intentionally avoided post-game reviews about ME3 so that I could go into it without bias. I had the general idea that people were pissed about it, and demanding all kinds of reparations, the usual "I'm never playing another BW/ME/EA-is-thedevil" rants. Upon my own completion, I decided that yeah, the ending was, well, not what I expected to be sure, but I wasn't all that broken up over it, maybe because I was still reeling from Thane's death. The alternate ending DLC kiiiinnnnnddd of helped, I guess? Overall, it just left a sour taste in my mouth. I still loved the game, still got all feely over it, and will play any further installments they make.
That being said, I swear to the Maker, Andraste, her body parts, WHATEVER, if they eff up this next DA DLC, I will set things on fire. Well, maybe old mail in a burn pit outside, where I'll probably roast marshmallows, because I'll be there anyways and I like sugar, BUT STILL! I'll be sooooo angry when I eat that marshmallow. Fist-shaking-to-the-heavens angry.