Work had gotten in the way of my rule list, but never fret, I am off at five (in six minutes) where then I will be free to do whatever the hell I want.
There shall be no misunderstandings in the future after I'm done with the thread. Heh.
The biggest problem with reporting for any reason other than harassment/homophobia/personal attacks/racism /other more important things is NOW the thread is going to be on their radar. And the mods might take it upon themselves to get rid of whatever else they want to. Art, fanfics, comments. Whatever. Now we are being watched.
I am sure this isn't the relevant conversation but I am catching up a bit on the thread.
Anytime I have stuck my nose into disagreements, in my silly attempt to be a voice of reason (Mims does it so much better) it's because I was terrified that we'd end up being watched. I have no desire to censor anyone. I have always only cared that everyone feels welcome, and no one feels uncomfortable. Which is such a futile undertaking because it's impossible. We all hail from different countries. Have vastly differing sexualities. Some people are just here for the theories. Others didn't romance Solas at all but just like to hang out.
I can't speak for anyone else, but I assume sometimes when people make calls for toning it down or to be more on topic, it's to keep the thread open. We all love this thread and the people participating in it. We don't know if it was just a Mod popping in and saw it, or someone reported it. I have no proof of anything. But I see it far more likely someone reported, and I have no idea what their motivations were. And as Ave said now we're on their radar.
Here's the thing: Sometimes when someone says "hey that's really NSFW" they're not attacking you personally, or making a judgement. As far as I understand the forum rules, no embedding NSFW pictures/art, link to it. They're not censoring you, they aren't being a prude. It can get the thread shut down. I personally am not bothered by NSFW, but I don't want someone reporting it and having the Mods watching the thread. And in squabbles in the past, that's all anyone cared about. (I'm not going to get into things that make folks uncomfortable because that's a can of worms I don't want to deal with right now when we're all already upset and on edge. Rather keep it to the forum rules.)
I haven't been in this thread as long as some others. I started lurking before the game was released, and started posting after Solas broke my heart. We've had a revolving door when it comes to who is active in here. We're a lot more ehh relaxed? about things than it used to be. And I am ok with that, I am not saying I want the thread to change. The culture has shifted, and I adapted along with it. I enjoy the people we have here now, and I enjoyed the people that are now missing.
Just please guys be more careful. If you don't care for the content of a particular poster's posts, either put them on ignore or scroll past it. If you feel like someone has said something that feels like an attack, or you're genuinely upset/offended, send them a PM, hash it out there. If you're sharing art (your own or someone else's) and you're concerned it's not entirely appropriate or you're worried it could get you into trouble, link to it instead of embedding it. Please I am not telling anyone what to do, just sharing some advice for the good of the thread and all of us that love it. Don't report. PM the person first. Please guys.