I'm sure I'll regret posting this and I vowed to never get into internet drama again, but for the sake of the good moments I had reading this thread I will add my two cents.
It's very good and nice to tell people to scroll down and ignore what they don't like, and respect that other people might like it, as long as you practice it too. I supported Liz when she got the warning and said that whomever did it please send a PM next time they were bothered about content on the thread. I had discussions with people that had a completely different opinions, always on respectful terms, and that's what I loved about this thread. I didn't like when there was very convoluted theorizing and just scrolled past it. I got tired when the glitterotica thing started to stretch out pages and pages, and just scrolled past it. Just as I was glad that they created a specific thread for lore, where I thought the crazy theories would go, I was glad that a thread was created to contain all the crazy elven pantheon stuff. I expressed so in a very respectful manner, emphasizing that I still thought people who went there were amazing in spite of posting some things that weren't my cup of tea. And the responses I got where far from respectful.
What I mean, there is a vibe of "we are the victims of censorship and intolerance", but some people have started to have a not very constructive attitude towards people not liking their jokes and content. Respect should be a two-way lane. And if we keep on with the passive-agressive "suck it if you don't like this" messages, the ambient on the thread will keep on being rare and we'll keep on being watched.
I still don't agree with the lurker reporting and think it's better to PM or make a suggestion to tone down the gifs and off-topic jokes a bit if someone is getting specially bothered by it or thinks we can get undesired mod attention. But as it is, it's clear we already got that attention, deserved or not. And it's better if we don't give the mods any further motives for watching us (meaning if they feel there is a confrontational atmosphere, that will probably will keep us on their radar)
So I'd suggest we all chill down, let the drama pass, and keep on having amazing discussions and amazing art. I understand that people who got warnings are very uneasy, but I think it's better if we try to put that behind and move on.





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