I wonder if there are loopholes.
What if the thing I desire most is to kill demons?
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UGH. But I want a sexy library scene between Fen'Harel and Wisdom. They're discussing politics, philosophy, history - the meaning of life and ethics. And as they bond over the questions they ask, the variances of opinion, their love blossoms and finds fruition ... lying together amongst the book stacks.
I want the sexy librarian trope.
Alternately, it could be like the worst version of Scott Pilgrim ever. That's a hell of a list of Evil Exes. No booty is worth that.
I wonder if there are loopholes.
What if the thing I desire most is to kill demons?
Obviously, They'd transform into a sweet Jaegar and you'd get to climb inside and pilot them around the battlefield.
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Secretly, I ship Wynne and the Spirit who saved her life SO HARD. She felt the spirit for years, watching, loving, protecting. Rather than lose her, the spirit chooses to possess her, empower her, and save her. It's only when she let's go to save another by choice that the spirit leaves. And I bet with so many tears of regret and feeling. They know they must do this thing because she asked, because they love her. If they don't do it, she'll change it something they don't love, and her asking them to do it makes them love her more. FEEEELS.
Oh, Liz, baby, don't do this to me. ;~;
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UGH. But I want a sexy library scene between Fen'Harel and Wisdom. They're discussing politics, philosophy, history - the meaning of life and ethics. And as they bond over the questions they ask, the variances of opinion, their love blossoms and finds fruition ... lying together amongst the book stacks.
My headcanon doesn't equal your headcanon, you have all the Fen'Harel/Wisdom sexytimes you want luv.
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I'd say its more likely that a spirit wouldn't return Solas's love, even if he felt it. They would need to go through some sort of process like Cole, or already be a spirit of love.
Solas specifically refers to the Wisdom spirit as an 'it'. Even if you attempt to correct him. I don't think that's by accident. He may see them as equals to [humanity], but there is still a fundamental difference between the two. Which is why he envies them so. He longs for that sort of pure existence.
That doesn't mean its possible for him to obtain it.
This. 1,000x this.
Cole is a spirit and he is anything but simple. He is full of complexity.
Problem is, Cole is unique among spirits. Solas has been around for thousands of years at least, and doesn't he say he hasn't seen a case like Cole's before? Either way, Cole is the exception, not the rule.
Cole also only becomes more complex because of his unique circumstances, but he can go back to being more simple and spirit-like if you choose the "Spirit" path of his personal quest. As Solas notes, "Spirits embody emotions. They don't 'work through' them."
There IS a spirit of love! It's in a codex entry from this game. A man seeks out a spirit of love three times, but by the third he twists it into a desire demon who wraps her fingers around his heart. The assumed ending is that it kills him.
What's fascinating here is that Solas personally states that the opposite of a Desire Demon is a Spirit of Purpose, and yet we have codex entries stating that the opposite of a spirit of Love is a Desire Demon. [snip]
It's possible they can both also says that in the Fade, things are rarely that simple.
Mortals try to simplify spirits into strict categories that often turn out not to be true.
In DA2, Anders lectures Merrill about how all Fade beings are broken down into strict categories; "good" Fade spirits, and "evil" demons. We learn in DAI that this is false--there are "peaceful" spirits and "destructive" demons, sure, but spirits can be easily corrupted into demons, but only when their natures and/or purposes are polluted by negative mortal emotions and/or expectations. Demons can also sometimes get turned back into spirits if the corrupting factor is removed. It's hardly as simple as "Spirit = always all good, Demon = always all evil," and that they always have been.
DA2 Anders also said that there are distinct types of demons; Pride, Desire, Sloth, Hunger, Rage. In DAI, we learn this is also false. There are many more types of demons and spirits we didn't know about (like Purpose and Wisdom), and it's hinted that there are many more types that mortals don't know.
It's possible that not all spirits and demons exist in complete binary; like, "ONLY Purpose can become Desire and vice-versa." As Solas himself notes; "Most spirits desire to join the living world, and a demon is that desire gone wrong." So it's possible that different types of spirits can become the same type of demon, since the same raw emotion can contribute to that vice. For example, Purpose can be corrupted into Desire because feeling like you need something that badly can lead to one being willing to do anything to obtain it. Love also involves wanting the other person (physically, emotionally, whatever) so badly that it's almost consuming. Wanting someone that badly can corrupt something as innocent as Love into something as all-consuming as Desire.
Does that make sense?
And that could also be why Solas can't love a spirit the way he can love a person. He has very strong passions (if his kiss scenes with Lavellan in DAI are any indication), and probably knows all too well that they can corrupt a spirit. He likely always has to be on his best behavior and best frame of mind around spirits, and falling in love with one the way he loves Lavellan could corrupt it. As Mims pointed out, he admires/envies spirits for their simple and uncomplicated existences, but that doesn't mean he can be that way himself. He likely needs to love and be loved as a mortal does, with all the intelligence and complexities of a mortal, without fear that his very emotions can corrupt them from the inside out.
That's my view, though.
I just realized that we're essentially arguing whether or not a spirit and a person can have a compatible and real and fulfilling romance and I'm just like, this is what Dragon Age does. In all other media where spirits exist, this would probably be a non-argument. ![]()
Liz, you have not succeeded in getting me to imagine Solas and Wisdom together. No, my brain cannot work in such simple ways. Now I'm imagining a Solas/Wisdom/Lavellan three-way relationship. I have a headache now.
Secretly, I ship Wynne and the Spirit who saved her life SO HARD. She felt the spirit for years, watching, loving, protecting. Rather than lose her, the spirit chooses to possess her, empower her, and save her. It's only when she let's go to save another by choice that the spirit leaves. And I bet with so many tears of regret and feeling. They know they must do this thing because she asked, because they love her. If they don't do it, she'll change it something they don't love, and her asking them to do it makes them love her more. FEEEELS.
I never considered shipping spirits, now I ship spirits with people. Thanks liz. Spirits are people too.
I never considered shipping spirits, now I ship spirits with people. Thanks liz.
It's like - no i didn't need another hellspiral. I reject this just to save my poor heart.
I'm too raw over my hobo trash prince.
Again. I'm saying there's a difference between being able to wander the fade because of the choices you willing made.. and being locked away against your will with your own thoughts and the thoughts of a spirit of Wisdom to comfort you. Maybe he would go insane, but with Wisdom there I personally think it would give him the time he needs to really look inside himself and grow. Like you said his good intentions didn't survive contact with the real world... I think he needs to stop with his "good intention" plans and start working on his own personal growth. He needs to learn to be able to say "ok" to happiness I think. I want him to have that time to realize that it's okay to put down his War Banner and find love and I think with him running around Thedas getting up to his crazy shenanigans he's never going to have that time unless someone forces him to take it.
i'm not sure i get the distinction you're trying to make between the thousand+ years solas spent freely talking to wisdom and the forced confinement you envision.
I'm saying he's already been talking to her for a very long time, i'm not sure making the conversation take place in a locked cell would change it, or the tragic conclusion it led to.
or else we are operating under the assumption that because she embodies wisdom, she would of course be giving him the correct answers he needs to achieve happiness and success? and the problem all along was that he wasn't listening?
as a spirit she reflects wisdom, that does not stop solas from taking her words and translating them into his own terms, or using them to reconfirm his personal biases and opinions rather than truly picking apart his own motives with anything approaching critical thought. As a spirit, wisdom would be unable to grapple with that kind of complexity, and solas is simply uninclined to because he's prideful.
or are we talking about them being locked up post-game? i could see him being consoled by wisdom of course but if we're defining a happy ending for him to be personal growth, moving beyond good intentions, letting go of his past issues and finding love i believe PW said he was literally on the verge of doing exactly that with lavellan in crestwood before he chickened out.
remember the balcony scene. He's trying to sense, to figure out what makes her SPIRIT unique. Is it the orb? Is it possession? Is it how she was raised?
this scene always makes me laugh because the orb is his and he's like "i just don't get it, are you actually cool or is it just my coolness rubbing off on you?"
Despite the cringing thought of dating a creep spirit child, I would date Cole. Would you date Cole? He's supportive.
hmmm... Now that I think about it. I would imagine him cheating on you for the sake of easing somebody's sorrow. Sorry Cole, I only believe in us. In monogamy.
Stop helping that dying old man over there, bikini Cole.
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UGH. But I want a sexy library scene between Fen'Harel and Wisdom. They're discussing politics, philosophy, history - the meaning of life and ethics. And as they bond over the questions they ask, the variances of opinion, their love blossoms and finds fruition ... lying together amongst the book stacks.
"Don't you spout your qunari filth!"
ugh no that voice, just ughh nooo.
Oh man. That's fascinating to me. The idea that perhaps spirits can feel even more deeply than mortals. And you're right, it's clear that they do change. And some of that change can be subtle - it doesn't happen over night. Like the Nightmare. When Cole talks about it, it's that he sees how he could become it in time. A slow twisting of intention. And because spirits feel things so strongly, they keep going where others might stop. Their devotion to a concept, ideal, person, or aspect of their essence goes beyond where a human might stop. Because the boundaries of mortals don't apply to them.Secretly, I ship Wynne and the Spirit who saved her life SO HARD. She felt the spirit for years, watching, loving, protecting. Rather than lose her, the spirit chooses to possess her, empower her, and save her. It's only when she let's go to save another by choice that the spirit leaves. And I bet with so many tears of regret and feeling. They know they must do this thing because she asked, because they love her. If they don't do it, she'll change it something they don't love, and her asking them to do it makes them love her more. FEEEELS.
Yup. And speaking of Cole... I think we talked about this already but it was recently brought up how they had a 3rd option for his personal quest where you could let him kill the Templar and obviously change him for the worst. So I think it's obviously that spirits can feel strong emotions if he can be brought to murder the source of the pain he's feeling. So far Cole is unique in Inquisition, but who is to say that he's unique in the entire world of Thedas. There's a large opportunity for there to be many spirits like Cole wandering the living world of Thedas and we simply haven't met them yet.
Problem is, Cole is unique among spirits. Solas has been around for thousands of years at least, and doesn't he say he hasn't seen a case like Cole's before? Either way, Cole is the exception, not the rule.
Solas is a lying liar who lies.
But...
Although your point about Cole being an exception is true, the point I'm making is that the fact that it's possible at all rules out simplicity in general. They obviously have layers that even a being a thousand years old has yet to uncover.
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for both your wonderful art and using part of one of my favourite new!Who episodes.
someone, quick, find me a screen shot of wisdom. i've got WORK to do...
away from my screenshots. Best I could do it give you are these ripped things from a youtube channel.
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Words from Cannon Solas.
"I’m sorry Cole, but with your gift I fear that you may see the path that I now must walk in solitude forever. This fate is mine alone. Indeed, I do not wish this on an enemy, much less someone that I once cared for. Though you reach out in compassion, I must insist that you forget…"
Cannon Solas wants to be alone.
That... doesn't sound like its being said by a man in a good or happy place. I'd say canon Solas needs people around him to keep him grounded.
This. 1,000x this.
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That's my view, though.
I'm out likes. ![]()
I just realized that we're essentially arguing whether or not a spirit and a person can have a compatible and real and fulfilling romance and I'm just like, this is what Dragon Age does. In all other media where spirits exist, this would probably be a non-argument.
It is an interesting debate, to be honest. ![]()
Oh, and don't mind me, guys. I'll just continue sitting here and watch. ![]()

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I doubt a spirit and a human could realistically love each other anymore than you could love the wind, or it could love you. Love doesn't even mean the same thing it would for us, I'd imagine. Romantic love anyway. I'm sure most of you realize that, surely.
At best, you'd end up with something that fully embodies the concept of love and is thoroughly obsessed with you to the point that it becomes everything to that spirit, which... is lol, unhealthy for a relationship unless you like being stalked 24/7 by a spirit that might switch to a spirit of envy or jealous rage if you slip once.
Why am I even going through this, lol. It wouldn't work. I don't obviously know for a fact, but I'd bet my bottom dollar and both testes. Better off shipping Solas with Bull.
I AM SORRY. But I couldn't hold in my Wynne+Spirit headcanon feels ANY LONGER. And what's amazing about.. SPOILERS
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I doubt a spirit and a human could realistically love each other anymore than you could love the wind, or it could love you. Love doesn't even mean the same thing it would for us, I'd imagine. Romantic love anyway. I'm sure most of you realize that, surely.
At best, you'd end up with something that fully embodies the concept of love and is thoroughly obsessed with you to the point that it becomes everything to that spirit, which... is lol, unhealthy for a relationship unless you like being stalked 24/7 by a spirit that might switch to a spirit of envy or jealous rage if you slip once.
Why am I even going through this, lol. It wouldn't work. I don't obviously know for a fact, but I'd bet my bottom dollar and both testes. Better off shipping Solas with Bull.
You do have a point. There was the one codex entry about a man who loved a spirit above any woman. And he basically turned her into a desire demon.
Edit: But then Solas had sex with spirits. Confirmed by Blackwall and Sera.