Thank you... I'm just so upset and I hate being like this (actually crying like an idiot!) because I just want to have fun and enjoy Solas. It seems I can't do anything without causing issues...
When I teach my students about debate, we go over the definitions of "antagonism" and "agonism." Agonistic debate tactics (i. e. what wee Romans and Greeks were taught) centers on debate being like a dance or a sword fight with parries and thrusts. You allow others to have their say and counter that, but maintain a respectful distance and allow the other person to be heard. Antagonistic debate (i. e. the Tumblr crowd apparently) is shrill and blunt--absent elegance and absent respect for the issue being discussed. Antagonistic debate wants to absolutely silence the other side by screaming louder and/or using intimidating rhetoric.
What makes me especially upset about Tumblr is how some of these people are running people they take issue with out and then cordoning off the fandom. There have been some really great artists who have stopped doing DA art because of such unwarranted and vitriolic reactions. No one gets to dictate absolutely the terms of a conversation on a public forum like Tumblr. And yet . . .
I would advise you to ignore them, just to not give them the satisfaction. This is what they want. However, you seem like a sensitive and empathetic person, and if their vitriol is causing you undue stress, I would just take a break, for your own health.
But really, you don't owe them anything. They do not get to dictate the conversation through bullying.
The best thing about this is that Solas absolutely favors agonistic as opposed to antagonistic debate. He would probably like some of his fans' debate styles about as much as he likes tea.