(like Anora, Bianca, Fiona, etc.) are female. Sad. 
Anora, Bianca, Fiona, Sera, Vivienne, Leliana even... I don't know about you guys, but I see a pattern here ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
People like to hate on strong females having their own personal agencies and not prioritizing others over themselves, I guess.
I don't think it's deliberate sexism. It's just society teaches us that the type of traits Fiona has are good in a man, but bad in a woman. And there a lot of male characters who screw up far, far worse than Bianca and Fiona who don't get nearly as much hate and have fandoms that justify everything they do. *cough*Anders*cough*
I know it's sexism, I just think it's sexism that comes from how society teaches us to think, rather than someone thinking 'today I'm going to be a sexist jerk.' If that makes sense. Sorry if it doesn't. Seemed clearer in my head.
Sexism always and ONLY comes from society's conditioning, and as such, there can't be a "real" or "false" sexism. If society teaches us that the type of traits Fiona has are good in a man but bad in a woman, then it is the basic definition of sexism. Internalized sexism is one of the most dangerous type, in its most subtle forms, really harmful as hell. The worst type of sexist people to argue with, while being a feminist, is never the kind who are like "today I'm going to be a sexist jerk", but always, ALWAYS the type who are like "I'm a feminist, but", or "I think women should be equal but".
False friends to feminism are a billion times worse than openly jerky opponents to it.