Anora, Bianca, Fiona, Sera, Vivienne, Leliana even... I don't know about you guys, but I see a pattern here ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
People like to hate on strong females having their own personal agencies and not prioritizing others over themselves, I guess.
Bah. People hate on Loghain and Anders, too, and both Morrigan and Leliana are quite popular even though they have their detractors. This kind of charge is like horoscopes or fortune cookie pronouncements. There's something vague and generally true, but if you want to see a pattern, that's what you'll see. "You'll have a new opportunity this week." "That character is female and people don't like her, must be sexism."
Sexism always and ONLY comes from society's conditioning, and as such, there can't be a "real" or "false" sexism. If society teaches us that the type of traits Fiona has are good in a man but bad in a woman, then it is the basic definition of sexism. Internalized sexism is one of the most dangerous type, in its most subtle forms, really harmful as hell.
So is internalized feminism.

It teaches you to see sexism under every rock, and to expect it, which IMO sometimes creates that very result. I think it's very harmful for human relations. I'd much prefer to focus on our common humanity. Likewise, a good female character is a good character and a bad one is a bad one. Disliking female characters for whatever reason is no more pernicious than liking or disliking a male.
The DLC did a much better job weaving the story into the zone.
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You make a good case. Ergh, I dislike the PC gameplay so much and with what I've heard about the combat difficulty spike, I don't look forward to the tedium. I'll wait for the price to drop or until I'm ready for a replay. Witcher 3 will be out soon anyway.