Racist?
(And thanks for the suggestions, I will have a look. I stayed away from very indie so far for the poor quality you mentioned too.)
Her reaction towards an elf Inquisitor is nothing but prejudice about her race. Correct me if I'm wrong though.
And let me know which one you'd have played and loved!
She's a bit too unrelenting, and often just nasty. I hated it when Merrill would turn dippy at various points, but she was easier to tolerate.
Same for Vivienne, for me. Contrast to Morrigan, she was just uniformly nasty without enough humor and humanity to balance it.
She has a huge backstory that we barely even know of, and I'm sure there are good explanations to why she is the way she is. Still, her nastiness is one side of her personality, and there are many other very interesting ones. I can understand if it'd be enough to stop you from loving her altogether, but reducing her to it would be wrong.
I feel like Sera has been living a hard life, being prejudiced against, and repressing a lot of things, and having grown to fear some stuff A LOT. It's easy to hate her for her reaction towards the things she fears the most, but it'd also be feeling superior to her conditioning/alienation, thinking we don't have any because we're not experiencing hers. I don't know if I quite make myself clear here, but I can understand her knee-jerk reactions towards the things she fears so much.
What I don't like about her, though, is her inability to introspection, to self-criticize and analyze why she acts the way she acts. But then again, that'd be hating her for her inability to see her own conditioning/alienation, and that wouldn't be fair at all. Most of us stay blind about them our whole lives, so who would I be, to start criticizing her for that? It irks me, but I understand how hard it is to start opening our eyes on those things and start challenging everything you built your life on.
If anything, it gives me hope to see her character being more developed in the future, because there's DEFINITIVELY room for it. I feel like they could have done it in DA:I, but haven't (maybe lacked time?), hence why maybe most people are so understandably frustrated about her.
Tl;dr: My faves are problematic, but I still love them. Hell, my whole family is problematic, but I still love them to death (while getting into arguments with them for being problematic).