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Not fake strong like Isabela etc. who must be on the morally questionable side to get things done and who are "strong" by using sex to advance. Merrill is depicted as naive and many people lose sight of her because of that. (Though I do wish to point out that her naivety is mainly about sex, and it just further underlines that she, unlike others, does not succeed by using her femininity.)

 

I was gonna agree with a lot of what you said, but then you had to say this.

 

What's wrong with using sexuality or one's femininity to succeed, actually? How does using sexuality or femininity makes someone "fake strong"?

I'm only asking because your wording here really makes me uncomfortable, placing femininity and sexuality at a lower status than whatever else you think is more honorable.

I just hope you were just clumsy in how you expressed yourself, but really, sexuality and femininity are just as valid ways to be strong, and to make a character interesting, as anything else you might find "more worthy".

I have a superficial understanding of Isabela & Merril, though, so I'm sure there are flaws I have yet to grasp about them, but I'm talking in a more general way, here.


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Fixed that ;)
 
But yes, I do too. Sometimes the most minor/random things stick out.


Hehe and the way he says "bear" like in "bring to bear"
My inquisitor would totally joke about the random words he says that stick out <3
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Hehe and the way he says "bear" like in "bring to bear"
My inquisitor would totally joke about the random words he says that stick out <3

 

Inquisitor: Solas, talk to me.

Solas: What about?

Inquisitor: Anything. Everything. I'm sure whatever words come out of your mouth will be fascinating to listen to.

Solas: So... you want me to say words... even if they're random and devoid of coherent thought?

Inquisitor: Yes. That will work too.


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SOLAS!

 

YOU'RE BACK!

i come and go like my namesake 

 

mysterious wind noise


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i come and go like my namesake 

 

mysterious wind noise

 

You're dumping us for another thread, aren't you?!

 

I wish Black Emporium dropped today. I'm sick and I have nothing better to do than mess with character facial structures. 


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*Realizes you meant the OP.* Welcome back! We're also 700-something posts from hitting 100k.

 

 

 

*Sinks back down into 'nope' sort of day.*

pats u consolingly i am sorry friend

 

never kess never! solas thread is best thread

I just come and go due to work shift patterns :3

 

but as always if you need something done to OP title etc just pm me and i got it :)



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Inquisitor: Solas, talk to me.

Solas: What about?

Inquisitor: Anything. Everything. I'm sure whatever words come out of your mouth will be fascinating to listen to.

Solas: So... you want me to say words... even if they're random and devoid of coherent thought?

Inquisitor: Yes. That will work too.

 

This should've been available. Bring back the chat with your companions wherever option.



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Time for some serious feels and maybe some crying..

 

Ary's very sad comic. (It's been posted before but she just added it to her Deviant Art account so I thought I'd share for those who haven't seen it yet)

 

Part One

http://arybobary.dev...art-1-531000168

Part Two

http://arybobary.dev...art-2-531003990

Part Three

http://arybobary.dev...art-3-531005879


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Oh gosh, I had sort of put the feels from that comic away somewhere.....found them. -_-


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Oh gosh, I had sort of put the feels from that comic away somewhere.....found them. -_-

 

Would it help if the next scene I have Lavellan open a rift, fly through the fade, and falcon punch the side of Solas's head?  :lol:


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What's wrong with using sexuality or one's femininity to succeed, actually? How does using sexuality or femininity makes someone "fake strong"?

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I'm right with you. Despite having her disapprove with almost everything I did (thus often keeping her out of my party) and disagreeing with a lot of crap she did (like stealing a relic of a culture that isn't her own), I feel like Isabela is one of the characters with the most depth in DA2. She was abused by her ex-husband and sold to him when she was a child. In her banter, she mentions teaching women in prostitution how to fend for themselves because she has had experience doing so her entire life—she teaches them to be selfish to survive. For all her faults, she has a lot of admirable strengths.


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Please stop twisting and omitting my words.
 
First, how "realistic" is this world when it has magic and giants and dragons?
...
You want to talk about "not realistic"? Most human characters don't know that much about ancient elven lore and magics either, so it would be "unrealistic" for a contemporary human like Morrigan to be able to gain such knowledge. But Morrigan didn't have an upbringing typical of "most humans"; she was raised by Flemeth, and given unusual access to such knowledge. It would also be "unrealistic" for a human apostate to be raised in plain sight of the Templars (since most child mages tend to get caught or killed, or possessed by a demon if unproperly trained in magic), but Hawke didn't have a typical upbringing of most Andrastian human mages. 
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is it really too much to ask to have an occasional elven character know more than a human character?


Wow, you're really hostile, huh? Sure, have it your way.

 

Alright, first, I never twisted or omitted anything. You talked about seeing the same oppression you experienced, so I took the notion of too much realism from you.

 

Second, you gotta be kidding me. That silly "but there's magic and dragons" thingy? Eeh, sorry, let's not stoop that low, alright? I'll just ignore this. Human (or elven etc.) mentality is what we discuss, not the nature of the environment.

 

Third, I mentioned three examples for exceptions where an elf surpasses human contestants to reach a position (inquisitor, circle leader) of high prestige. You wanted "the occasional elf who...", I showed you some. You ignore this. Instead you bring two other examples of exceptions, this time of humans being in special situations. We both know that such things exist and I don't see the point of your argument. Hence, I feel unable to reply to this, other than: yes, there are humans who are special, but there are also elves who are special.

 

Anyway, you carry a deep grudge in you, and when it comes to this topic you really have a chip on your shoulder. I do not know why you wish to see so much evil in BioWare and why you desperately want to feel wronged. I find it sad, but maybe I defend them too much, alright. It is your decision to be so unhappy with the games and you are free to do so, of course. But I see this leads nowhere because you do not even want it any other way, so I'll drop out of this discussion here.
 

I was gonna agree with a lot of what you said, but then you had to say this.
 
What's wrong with using sexuality or one's femininity to succeed, actually? How does using sexuality or femininity makes someone "fake strong"?
I'm only asking because your wording here really makes me uncomfortable, placing femininity and sexuality at a lower status than whatever else you think is more honorable.
I just hope you were just clumsy in how you expressed yourself, but really, sexuality and femininity are just as valid ways to be strong, and to make a character interesting, as anything else you might find "more worthy".
I have a superficial understanding of Isabela & Merril, though, so I'm sure there are flaws I have yet to grasp about them, but I'm talking in a more general way, here.

 
Easy: nothing per se, but it's a man's point of view. It's how men have envisioned women for ages, that they aren't tough enough and that they can't handle things any other way. Femme fatale. How does a woman get to the top in business? Sleep her way up. How does a pretty (and dumb) woman get money or a good job? Sleep with her boss. Marry rich. How does a woman reach some overall goal? Seduce with men who are too stupid to realize it. Or, something I saw in a movie yesterday, how does a woman win the poker world championship? Show t*ts to distract the male contestant's attention. etc. Oh, another classic: how does a woman punish her man? Deny sex.
 
Nothing is wrong with it until it is the only way I am presented with far too often. Exploiting this male weakness is one way, yes, but it comes down to this just far too often and I very much appreciate to be presented a pretty girl not using this approach at least once in a while.
This is not a question of honor to me, it is a question of pigeonholing female characters. You can disagree, no issues there, but I personally just don't like it.

 

Just like I prefer to see a movie where a woman stabs somebody 20 times to kill him (or, say, beat him with her fist until he's dead), instead of poisoning his food. Break away from stereotypes. Like that girl with the dragon tattoo? I liked that. We don't see this often in a woman, this complete emotional mess and hunk of aggression and rage and mathematical cleverness and determination. Still enough sex in the story, but just an exceptional non-womanish woman. So, no, it wasn't clumsiness, it was simply my opinion.


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Spoiler

 

I can certainly understand being upset with the trope. I mean, it's been done to death. But I don't see how Isabella fits into it. She likes sex and is confident in her sexuality - that much she makes clear. But how she is using sex to advance? She has blades, and she knows how to use them (as we well know). She's captain of her own ship (when she has one) under a crew of mostly, if not all, men. And if I remember correctly there's some dialogue somewhere where she explains she doesn't sleep with those men because it makes things too complicated. So Isabella's skills as a rogue and as a sea captain have nothing to do with her love of sex. She's gotten where she is because she's skilled in what she does. She just happens to really like sex when she's not doing those other things.


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Easy: nothing per se, but it's a man's point of view. It's how men have envisioned women for ages, that they aren't tough enough and that they can't handle things any other way. Femme fatale. How does a woman get to the top in business? Sleep her way up. How does a pretty (and dumb) woman get money or a good job? Sleep with her boss. Marry rich. How does a woman reach some overall goal? Seduce with men who are too stupid to realize it. Or, something I saw in a movie yesterday, how does a woman win the poker world championship? Show t*ts to distract the male contestant's attention. etc. Oh, another classic: how does a woman punish her man? Deny sex.
 
Nothing is wrong with it until it is the only way I am presented with far too often. Exploiting this male weakness is one way, yes, but it comes down to this just far too often and I very much appreciate to be presented a pretty girl not using this approach at least once in a while.
This is not a question of honor to me, it is a question of pigeonholing female characters. You can disagree, no issues there, but I personally just don't like it.

 

Just like I prefer to see a movie where a woman stabs somebody 20 times to kill him (or, say, beat him with her fist until he's dead), instead of poisoning his food. Break away from stereotypes. Like that girl with the dragon tattoo? I liked that. We don't see this often in a woman, this complete emotional mess and hunk of aggression and rage and mathematical cleverness and determination. Still enough sex in the story, but just an exceptional non-womanish woman. So, no, it wasn't clumsiness, it was simply my opinion.

 

Now that you've rephrased it, I see what you mean and I agree with you. So yes, I do think it was clumsiness in your choice of words and also because a few lines aren't always enough to express what we mean.

The problem here isn't women using femininity or sexuality, but people/media/society using it as a trope too often, and I totally agree with you on that one. And it is usually done in a way that does not give said character ownership of their own sexuality, but tend to see it as a tool. Women expressing their own sexuality in no other goal than the pleasure of expressing it are far too few, but the tropes of women using it in order to gain or access something, almost as if women couldn't enjoy sexuality for itself, are indeed too common.

That been said, these representations of womanhood are still valid, and I do try not to bash them, because even though they are the kind of representation receiving the most exposure, they are still very valid and legitimate ways of self-expression. I'll always fight for more representation, and enjoy characters who fall out of this very narrow spectrum of womanhood society tries to put us in, but I'll never do so by bashing or putting down stereotypes that are indeed harmful to a lot of us, but are still echoing how some women feel like.

 

Just like I don't promote body-positivism by bashing thin bodies, I don't promote feminism by bashing femininity & sexuality.


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*snips*

 

 

*snip*

 

Siha, Faerunner, play nicely.

 

Or I shall have to get out Cole and Sera's 'get along' shirt.


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But I don't see how Isabella fits into it. She likes sex and is confident in her sexuality - that much she makes clear. But how she is using sex to advance?

 

In DAO or DA2, it was hinted she got ships by sleeping with (and then killing) the previous owners. Or maybe it was in the comics? I keep confusing the sources. And I'm fairly certain she mentions using her female benefits (in banter?). There's also banter about her outfit not being suited for the open sea, if I remember correctly.

I have no issues with Isabela. I don't particularly like her, but I don't even care so much about her flaws. I only carried over a negative feeling from DAO, where I really didn't like this stiff wax figure with her one-track mind. Anyway, in fact she came to my mind particularly regarding the "morally questionable side" I spoke of (slave trading, caring more about a good deal than stopping a slaver, starting a war over loot etc.)

 

Still, the point stands, I have seen many Isabelas in movies and games, but hardly a Merrill. Though I don't actually want to debate Isabela in particular, because what I said was not tied to one character but expressed discomfort with a general tendency in story writing and I don't like distracting from this discomfort by moving the focus to something else, which wasn't my point...  :ph34r:



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I hate having no idea what's going on ...



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Oh dear, look at the time.

 

Solas & Argent - internet meme

Solas & Sandal - uncovering weaknesses

Alistair Theirin & Solas - at a party (!)

 

Spoiler

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Siha, Faerunner, play nicely.
 
Or I shall have to get out Cole and Sera's 'get along' shirt.

 
My geez. I can't be any more polite and still state my opinion honestly. But, okay, I'll just not state my opinion honestly anymore.



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My geez. I can't be any more polite and still state my opinion honestly. But, okay, I'll just not state my opinion honestly anymore.

 

Please don't take it like that.  I'm just trying to break the building tension with some ill timed humour.  It's what I do.


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I don't think there's ever been a place where I feel people can politely state their opinion more safely than the Solas thread :/

Please keep posting your honest opinions here, Siha. It's right where they belong.


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I don't think there's ever been a place where I feel people can politely state their opinion safely than the Solas thread :/

Agreed. I only feel safe posting my thoughts in character threads, especially this one. Tensions may rise but things usually end with a polite "agree to disagree" or a funny quip to burst the tension. I always come here after getting into it with rude&ignorant people in other threads.


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My geez. I can't be any more polite and still state my opinion honestly. But, okay, I'll just not state my opinion honestly anymore.

 

There are other options.  :whistle:



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I don't think there's ever been a place where I feel people can politely state their opinion more safely than the Solas thread :/

Please keep posting your honest opinions here, Siha. It's right where they belong.

Agreed.  Siha, you have always been completely reasonable and nice when stating your opinion. And always willing to listen and then back up your own arguments when you disagreed.  I've always found debates with you to be entirely chill and reasonable.  If you want to debate on any of the other threads it almost feels like you need like 4 people to back you up because you will get attacked.  This thread has been really good about being kind to differing opinions. <3 <3


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Oh dear, look at the time.

 

Solas & Argent - internet meme

Solas & Sandal - uncovering weaknesses

Alistair Theirin & Solas - at a party (!)

 

Spoiler

 

I do believe you're right about the time...

 

Sera and Isabela: puppy love

f!Cadash and Lace Harding: The king of second chances

Salit and Solas: It comes naturally

Adorno Ciel Otranto and Oghren: it comes naturally

Owain and f!Adaar: New best friend

Pride Demon and Orsino: blackmail

Dorian Pavus and Carver Hawke: when our eyes are closed

Zevran Arainai and Desire Demon: worth the wait

Varric Tethras and Leandra Hawke: Card games

Iron Bull and Shale: Bound wrists