The theory crafting has only died down because we've pretty much run out of theories.
Edit: And Madrar and Caddius running off didn't help.
Edit again: where are they, anyway?
What?? Madrar and Caddius are gone? *sniff* Well, not that I have room to complain after vanishing like a puff of smoke for months. *whistles*
Cee, that's not a theory.
That's canon.
Unrelated to Solas but does anyone know what happened to Faerunner? I was looking through yesterday's posts for the stuff I wanted to reply to and her account is now guest_faerunner o.O
I'm presuming the I'm out post was taken to heart after the bunch of discussions that happened? I think her arguments and criticism were good, though sometimes she did approach in a way that came off as dismissive and a bit....rough.
No idea why she's actually gone or if other stuff went into her decision, but the posts directed against her in this thread were absolutely hostile and unwelcome.
Wow, it seems I missed quite a drama here - I had a nice debate with Faerunner, although that started out a little heated as well as I recall - but with the right communication it smoothed out; I'm not sure I entirely grasp this whole Fenris issue, but wow. It sounds serious.
Honestly, I think there's a whole giant list of things Solas could tell the Inquisitor about how the Dalish culture is wrong and never says, not just the Valasin. But he doesn't say these things because he's done that before and it didn't go over well. I don't see it as him deliberately withholding information and choice, just him deciding that it's not worth the fight at this point. He's offered his information before and it turned out to be more trouble than it was worth. And if you get his "you don't care about elves" dialogue, he admits to having given up that particular battle.
I find this reading of the character, and we are all entitled to our readings, extremely problematic. Solas . . . gives up. And that's it? His opinion of the Dalish as a monolithic entity stands? He doesn't find the inquisitor worthy of the information because he is deciding his or her reaction ahead of time?
I was being facetious there. Doesn't always come accross well online.
But you have actually highlighted a reason why he doesn't tell friend!Lavellan:
'Only have him divulge this very earth-shattering secret to someone who has proven willing to listen'
Solas has trust issues and his only friends for the last goodness knows how many thousands of years have been spirits. Since he woke up he's been shunned by Dalish clans and treated as an apostate and second class citzen. He has really bad trust issues.
And he has no idea how Lavellan will react to this news. Solas is very careful in what he tells people and the only people he lets close are Cole and his girlfriend. The secret he has is huge. It could utterly destory some Dalish because it takes away everything they believe in. Solas shares it with Lavellan because he trusts her. Because he wants her to know the truth about himself. Maybe that seems harsh for a Lavellan who is only a friend but - here's the important part - they are only a friend. I consider this to be perfectly in character for a man who has massive trust issues and a habit of being very careful with what he tells people.
tl;dr: I have a lot of thoughts on this subject. Some of them are starting to make sense.
I'm gonna jump in here before I finish catching up - first, I'd agree with the assessment that Solas isn't deliberately withholding information; someone with so much knowledge about the Elvhen would in all probability take it for granted that the Dalish know next to nothing, the vallaslin being just one in a myriad of details that they got wrong about their history. I do think Solas is all about expanding yourself, but he doesn't go out of his way to educate anybody really, it's more... coincidental. He lets *you* ask for information, he never really volunteers it, except for this one instance.
As to this latter point about trust issues, I had a thought on that: I imagined what it would have been like had Solas confided in mLavellan in a similar, yet different way about the vallaslin, and I thought that actually that would have been incredibly suspicious. fLavellan is ostensibly clouded by her emotions to see all the tells, the signals that are slightly off, the fact that he knows just a little too much, and how he's always ready with explanations and theories that seem picture perfect, but if my unfettered mLavellan suddenly got this information from him, I think that might've been a hair more than the wagon could bear.
Just think about it - he's already pretty shady, and that's inclusive of the fact that he's so unfazed by the plight of modern elves, unlike pretty much every single other elf in Thedas. We might headcanon elves who aren't particularly attached to Dalish traditions or who shun the city elf life, but I don't recall any other in-game elf who doesn't feel at least a basic friendly bias regarding other elves. So, next to all of this, I imagine Solas telling me that he saw in the Fade (and yet speaks with such certainty about, when he himself keeps saying that the "truth" you see in the Fade is extremely mutable!), that might cause my brain cogs to start whirring that something is really off here. It's such a potentially offensive thing to say to a Dalish that you wonder why he would risk bringing it up and the only answer to that is that he must know with a certainty - but *how* could he *possibly* know any such thing for a certainty?
In comparison, the romance scene gives a lot of mitigating factors; he cares about Lavellan, he wants her to be in the best way possible, and it makes his remark a sign of good intention, regardless of how much it may or may not hurt or be offensive. He always seemed slightly more pushy to me in romance for the same reason, that he wants Lavellan to get things right, to do things for the right reasons and it seems somehow more important to him than when he sees a friend doing his own thing. He still won't volunteer information, but fLavellan can chalk it up to "my lover is concerned for me and wants to give me the gift of knowledge."
Anyway, this just occurred to me, I'm just playing mLavellan and this is based on my impressions so far of my interactions with Solas.
Back to reading!