Banal Nadas!! "Nothing is inevitable!"
Hello all. : )
This is my first official post on this thread and well.. this site actually. x p
I have been lurking (Solas style) around the thread for a long time and finally decided that you all are so awesome I had to jump in.
That and I have a statement/question(s) I have been very curious about in regards to Solas and Lavellan's relationship.
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So I guess what I am saying is.. Am I the only one who feels that way about this certain situation? Am I the only one hoping for a choice in the matter? I don't even care if it takes longer to give us some choices, but I would really love to have choices! If there must be tragic option (which I refuse to believe there is such a thing as inevitable or a hopeless situation!) give my Lavellen the chance to lovingly give her life for Solas.. don't let her keep searching forever because she is likely to trip into something dangerous just to get back to Solas.
Welcome to the thread, Geneva! It's great to still see new people pop up here, especially ones already ready for some big discussion!
As for me, my canon Lavellan wasn't happy about the breakup and she reiterated her feelings to him in case he wasn't aware of her level of seriousness on the matter, but she respects his freedom to leave the relationship. After all, he was hesitant about it pretty much the entire time and she was always the one who had to make the moves to push it forward (which is why it makes me laugh when people say Solas took advantage of or manipulated the Inquisitor into the romance. Nobody did that but, if anybody did, it was the Inquisitor herself! We make all the first moves even when Solas hesitates at the idea).
However, I didn't like that it was made canon (through Cole) that she thinks it's all because of her. Cari is perceptive. Considering how broken up Solas is during that breakup, she can tell that the whole thing wasn't really about something she did, but something in Solas' life that he feels is holding him back from being with her. It's incredibly obvious that it pains him to do this and though she may have entertained that he didn't quite feel for her as she did for him, ultimately she decides that isn't the truth. She knows him well enough to at least know that. Because of that, she doesn't get angry about getting broken up with or super horribly depressed. Mostly, she worries about Solas. Something is wrong with him and she knows it and it frustrates her that he won't tell her and let her help him.
And Solas bailing at the end confirms to her that something more is going on with him and that there is something more that is stressing him. So as of the end, there's a mix of worry, frustration, determination and sadness that something she knows they both want is being pulled apart by a monkey wrench she knows nothing about. If she truly thought Solas wanted out of the relationship, she would be fine with it even if he didn't tell her why. Him leaving her is not a choice she has any stake in; Solas can leave if he wants to and though she feels she deserves an explanation, it's not something Solas MUST give her to make it "fair". But she knows that there's more to it, that there's still more between them and that there's something tangible preventing it from happening.
So, if given the chance to pursue Solas and whatever he's up to, she'll be on that like a dog on a bone and completely determined to do what she can to fix it. And not just because she wants to be with Solas, but because she cares about him beyond their romantic relationship and would never let her other Inquisition friends walk away in that position either. She's a fixer, even if there are things she'd never be able to fix herself. And even if Solas' intentions are ominous, she's an optimist and wouldn't think too hard about that at first. 