So...in my fanfic "Wolf Caged" I wrote about Solas and my Lavellan's first night together. I called his lust for her the wolf inside him wanted to escape it's cage. After they did the deed, the wolf returned to the cage. Is something like that alright? Because I also don't like the whole idea of him acting like an animal. I think they way I did it was more of a metaphor. I don't know. It was the first time I had ever written anything like that.
You are completely fine. Ignore the haters.
People have been having a tendency to put their thoughts in terms of, "I hate it when people think this because I think this other thing," instead of just, "I think this." It's getting ridiculous. (I've been trying to not rant, but it hasn't let up.) You can think whatever you want to think.,
Everyone knows Solas only says "da'len" once (if at all). That was never the question. The question is whether or not some people can play with it in their heads--which they can because it is in their own heads. It was ridiculous to get Patrick Weekes to comment on it...so he could say, "I'm pretty sure he only says it once, in response to her, and before the romance started," and then respond back to him, "Yes, that's correct." Yes, it IS correct. But if people want to run away with different ideas, then let them run away with different ideas. It doesn't have anything to do with anyone else. (I don't even like when people use "da'len." Stop making me feel the need to defend it!)
If people like Solas with different hair, who cares. (I like both.) You can say, "I like him bald!" but don't put down other people that like him with hair--especially if lots of those people think of him as having hair thousands and thousands of years ago which has no bearing on Solas as we curently know him. If you're feeling the need to defend him because people are hating him being bald...do it where they're actually hating on him. Saying, "People keep hating on him being bald; I'm sick of people liking him with hair," isn't defending him against haters. It's just bringing the hate here against other fans who have every right to think whatever they want to think in their own heads.
Reading whatever metaphorical or literal meaning into the wolf thing is, right now anyway, completely up to our own heads. Shapeshifting, spirit forms, the nature of him, how it relates to his personality or "wolfish" attributes he may have incorporate into his mindset--we don't know. Literal stuff is more...out there. But people are complaining about too many people drawing from the "dread wolf" thing because lots of people are doing it, so you're in good company and welcome to it. It's not unusual and you can interpret the wolf stuff however you choose to. (Hate the halla thing because it doesn't fit my characters, but other people aren't writing about my characters! And I don't have a problem with him being compared to a wolf because...he's the Dread Wolf. That's not insignificant to me.)
We get little tiny fragments of these characters, and we take these little strands and fill in the blanks. How anyone wants to fill in those blanks is no one else's business. If other people filled their blanks differently, that is fine. If you think you have valid reasons for filling the blanks your way, then by all means share--this is a place to discuss Solas. That is absolutely what we're supposed to do. But saying that you dislike how other people think is not an argument or a discussion--it's just hating.
(And now I'm the biggest hater! Weee!)