finally bothered to figured out **** like cheat engine fraps and modding yeaaaa here's my Solasmancing (+canon) Inquiz new and 'improved' 
i say 'improved' cause she aint pretty shes a rough AF angry warlord but wat r u gunna do ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 
Solas, she looks real awesome! A good balance between bad-ass and sweet, in my opinion.
My first Lavellan was a bad-ass but I majorly messed up her lips - gave her the most horrific colour! - thought I could deal with it at the beginning but then hours later realised it was the worst... haha 
So my cannon Lavellan is the opposite, sweet, pretty and I role play her as such as well.
BTW, I know a lot of you have your Lavellans on the avatar, but I would love to see what all your Lavellans look like, unless that would be considered too off topic?
On the approval, I never had problems with Solas. I always like to ask a lot of question and that obviously helps a lot with him. However, on my first play through I think my approval for him was not high enough so he gave me 'I respect you, Inquisitor' balcony speech. Which left me very confused at first. Did he just break up with me?...
And then I was watching my friend play as well. She went for the fade kiss, but wanted to romance Cullen eventually. So I told her that she needed to get a balcony scene to officially end it with Solas. When she got there, he broke up with her first, again with 'I respect you' line, which made her annoyed as she wanted to be the one doping the breaking up. So she reloaded, tried to gain more of his approval, but he broke up with her again.
I was very amused!