You know, this kind of post might get dislikes if disliking posts was possible on here, but... Well, I have a thought about Solas. He fails a lot. He fails so often that he's still trailing behind his own failures, with more problems getting added each time he tries to stop failing. He failed when he locked the gods away, because elves went into decline. He failed when he gave the orb to Corifispits, which was an attempt to fix the last mistake. Then he failed when orb was destroyed instead of being recovered from Corphishits. Then he failed when he had to be the one to sorta-kill Mythal to try to fix the last 3 mistakes. He made a problem, and then made a bigger problem when he tried to fix the last problem, and then made and even bigger problem when he tried to fix the last problem that was meant to fix the first problem.
problem>try to fix>2 current problems>try to fix second problem>3 current problems>try to fix third problem>4 problems
I'm wondering where and how this pattern is going to finally break. He also did the same thing with the breakup, made a problem into an even bigger problem when he tried to fix it. I made a post a page or so ago saying no one is harder on Solas than Solas himself, but... Well, he has good reason to be hard on himself. He really needs to learn to cut his losses instead of constantly playing slot machines because he thinks he's going to get a jackpot soon, which he nearly did thanks to his girlfriend (either a jackpot of a loss cut). It's like he thinks that the best way to dig yourself out of a hole is to keep digging until you pop out on the other side of the planet after going right through the molten core.
...And now people will hate me. Don't get me wrong, I really liked his character. Nothing I said here means I didn't mean any of my prior posts, I just wanted to say my honest perspective about him. He's a flawed character, but that's partly why he's interesting.
Not really sure why people should hate you, since I think this is exactly what happens - I think his life is pretty much defined by sad irony; he wants to save the world or turn it for better, but he only makes things harder/more complicated; he cares about people, but he only ends up hurting them; he knows the taste of betrayal, but he himself is forced to betray others.
The saddest part of it is that he seems to be painfully aware of it. A lot indicates that he thinks of himself as already damned or beyond redemption - which is also likely a factor of why he breaks up with Lavellan.
Though TBH, I think he fails so much, because whatever goal he's set himself upon is pretty much impossible. Too many big things stand on his way - however, I also don't think that he hopes he'll hit the jackpot anytime soon. He said to Varric in banter once that he's not much of a gambler anymore and I think he says it in a very broad sense. He probably liked to take risks in his youth, only for it to backfire badly.
At this point, I think whatever he's trying to save, he has the last shot to do it (as unlikely it is that he'll succeed) and it's not a matter of gambling with the fate, but desperate attempt to save and conserve whatever it was that was lost. This is also why he approves more of Inquisitor telling him that they want to undo Corypheus' damage and get things back to the way they were before, more than he approves of IQ saying that they want to help the world move forward. His meek approval signify that he still wants to make things better, but at this point he's burned himself too much to believe that it is possible, hence he'll just stick with safer - even if still highly risky - bet.
His major problem now seems to be that he thinks he's the only one who can make a difference and/or carry the dirty burden of whatever has to be done. Question now is whether he'd be able to trust anyone to either let them help him... or let them stop him, while he learns to either let things go, or entrust the fate of the world into somebody else's hands.