I know it's a bit off topic but since I'm playing my Dalish Mage to romance Solas... I figured I'd ask--- what specialization should I go for? I have only done Knight Enchanter and I love it, but I was thinking of going for rift Mage. Not because of Solas but because its different. What Specilizations are your favorites? Maybe by the time I get to it your opinions help as I'm terribly indecisive .
I played KE, then reloaded the same file and played RM instead. I actually prefer KE, to be honest, but I have a lot of affection for the KE specialisation since my first DA:O playthrough was an arcane warrior.
Memories of those early times help with the feels.
OK, I'm curious: How did Solas first catch your eye?
Funny thing is, it wasn't any of the romance-related content that got me interested in Solas in the first place. The romance itself was awesome once I got to it, but what caught my attention was the "Cause and effect. Wisdom as its own reward..." line and doing his personal mission for the first time with my Trev mage Inquisitor.
I remember it now... I thought he was just this fade weirdo and nothing more than a plot device to dispense lore on the fade and magic to new players. I had shelved his personal mission for a later time, but went to the Exalted Plains to meet the Dalish clan. Dorian was my main mage at the time, but I thought switching him out for Solas might help earn favor with the clan. (I didn't even know of his opinion of the Dalish back then.
) Then while running errands for the clan, I went through Enavirus and accidentally triggered his personal mission.
And just like that... I wonder if I'd been better at reading the map back then, maybe I would've been a Cullenmancer who did one PT and moved on to other stuff to do in life. 
I must be pretty boring - I was absentmindedly browsing DA wiki after finding a few quest solutions, and I read a few character descriptions for DA:I. Solas immediately caught my eye - a dreamer mage and an elf, knowledgeable and a bit otherworldly. A gated romance also for elven women - I like playing both elves, and mages, and I like learning more about spirits/the fade, and I'm the sort of player who asks ALL of the questions and likes lore/theory junk, so I thought
great - let's do this, that's basically
perfect for me. When I finally got around to buying the game, I was torn between Cullen and Solas - (tempted by Cullen in the same way I went for Anders in DA2 because I'd met him in Awakening and wanted to jump his bones back then) and flirted with them both heavily at the beginning.
I ended up going with Solas because a few posts online indicated there was more lore involved - plus, I really liked how compassionate, sympathetic, and... well, human he was (bad choice of terms), despite being appearing to be a distant, stuck-up fade nerd.
Jesus christ I did not know what I was walking into.
Also is it just me or no matter your race, does Solas still seem to harbor some sort of interest that's a bit beyond friendship? I always got that vibe.
Not for me. My Adaar and has tried desperately to trigger his personal quest but it's just not happening.
Am I the only fan who had the 'yes, just one: are you okay?' reaction to that line rather than 'MUST KILL EGG'? Because it's starting to feel that way.
No - I'm completely with you here. Despite her years of experience, My Lavellen is such a lil softie when it comes to love - she just crumpled and burst into tears when Solas broke up with her. When Solas comes back, I think her reaction will probably include more tears, hugs, and (maybe) gentle kisses.
Really? I saw it coming from miles away
Their texts were becoming too goddamn intense for it to not... ehm, culminate in something. Can't say I wasn't surprised that it happened in THIS chapter, but eventually I figured this would happen at some point.
In any case, I don't mind it 'dragging', if it means a bit more politics, journalism or museum stuff or interactions with other characters - those parts I enjoy. Solas and Ellana obsessively thinking about themselves I can skip. I hope she also won't drag them not meeting in person for too long, it was an interesting hook for quite a while, but now it's getting a bit old.
I haven't read the latest chapter MS yet, but their texts have been filled to the brim with UST for ages, I'm not surprised if it got smutty very quickly. I'm kind of the same - I like all the details about other characters, and the adaptation of DA:I into the modern world.
The only thing I could do without are the comments about being obsessively in love/fawning over each other without any real action, or the da'len/harhen stuff (ew).
I'll probably read it anyway.
I wonder why Iron Bull is the only one who ever commented on my Tempest rogue. You'd think Sera might have something to say about it too. 
I'M HAVING THE SAME PROBLEM. Like, my current rogue uses FLASKS which have FIRE AND LIGHTNING IN THEM and gains super cool powers - surely someone must have comments.
I'm going to guess by that point in the story the Inquisitor is ready to openly believe just about anything. In fact, if they're told something mundane and simple they might not believe that because of everything that has gone on.
Solas: "What I have to tell you... the truth. I am... actually a heavy tea-drinker. I love the stuff. Can't ever get enough."
Inquisitor: *dies*
^ tbh would not be disappointed with that if it was real dialogue.