I swear some days it feels like I'm the only one who romanced Kaidan.
At least there's a reasonable number that romanced Fenris so I don't feel all alone in the didn't-do-Anders corner.
The friends of mine that played ME and talked about it were fishy fans, but Kitty Shepard stayed loyal to Kaiden the whole way through so you can add me to team Alenko! Garrus was mighty tempting but I managed to resist. Just barely.
Funny thing with DA2. I had an Anders playthrough and a Fenris playthrough. I enjoyed both, but Fenris was just so... rawr! Anders, on the other hand felt like he had lost some of the charm he had in Awakening. Still, When DA3 rolled around I plugged in the Anders version for plot curiosity, and got to the part where I had to decide between Hawke and Loghain. Because I worked so durn hard to keep Mister Mac Tir alive before, I wasn't about to let him die now. Hawke had to stay. Since then, I just can't bring myself to plug in the Fenris Hawke since I know she's gonna die, and I just can't do that to him.
Thus, my official world state fellas are Zevran > Anders > Solas.
Oh, and since I left Isabella at the bar and never recruited or even talked to her, she pretty much doesn't even exist on my world state. That means Fenris is still out there, angsty, glowy, single and free of STDs. I figure if there truly is no hope for Lavellan and Solas, odds are she may end up wandering the free marches some day, clanless and lonely. Mayhap she crosses paths with a handsome elf who has an equally irresistable voice and who's hand can also glow~
Works for me. :3