I just talked to Cole again in the tavern.
I asked about his past killing mages, and Cole said something like, "I knew [killing them was wrong], but I thought I had to."
Seems like a little parallel between Cole and Solas. Cole mercy-killed mages, not because he liked to, but because he wanted to help them and "felt he had to." Much like Solas, who knows what he's doing is wrong, but he's honestly trying to help people ("his people," but still), and really thinks he has to do it. Rhys had managed to persuade Cole that he didn't have to kill mages in the past, so I'm hoping the Inquisitor (friended or romance) will be able to convince Solas that he doesn't have to do what he will in the future.
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Oh my goodness! I thought the Crossroads were too beautiful for words, and wondered how so many people could scoff at the idea of Elvhenan having any value, or being worth recovering. If most non-elf players (who probably aren't that invested in "elfy stuff" to begin with) didn't see the breath-taking beauty of the Crossroads, I guess it makes sense that they wouldn't see any value in it.
Exactly. People are saying that it would be selfish to give up on your plans for the sake of Lavellan, but I think it's pretty selfish to take unilateral actions that will result in the deaths of millions of people. Honestly, I think his feelings for Mythal are stronger than his feelings for Lavellan. The death of Mythal was the catalyst for him to put up the veil, seal away the Evanuris, and take away the elves' magic and immortality. But Lavellan's life and her love is not enough to sway him from his current plans.
To be fair, he was already fighting against the Evanuris, already trying free his people from them, and trying to stop them from "destroying the world." Their murder of Mythal was just the final push to do something drastic to get rid of them for good. (Plus, he didn't intend to take away the elves' magic and immortality; that was a horrifically unintended consequence. If he'd known that would happen... I'd like to think he wouldn't have done it. The fact that he's desperate to undo it now, even knowing that it'll free the Evanuris, attests to that.)
His situation with Lavellan is different, because it's not like he was already in the process of giving up his plans, and then meeting Lavellan was the final push to discard them entirely. He was full-speed ahead on his plan to tear down the Veil, then meeting the Inquisitor blindsided him. Much as I love him, the meeting of one girl can't be enough to go from 120mph in one direction to the same speed in the opposite direction on a dime. He'll need more time to slow down or change course, and that's why we're badgering him um, following him trying to convince him to change course.