Just found this on reddit's DA page, relevant to current topic I think:
https://www.reddit.c...official_elven/
Edit: I now think this is why there's a lot of modern AUs and Solas/Non-Lavellan fic's I really can't get into. Solavellan's just... it works so well, from a story standpoint. And when you put them in different contexts, that may no longer be the case. Like, take a modern AU for example, where Solas is just some weird racist elf with a deep secret. Take his Dread Wolf aspect away, and yes he may still act like Solas, but he lacks the pathos and contrast that makes Solas as a character so interesting too. And on the other hand, if the other party isn't a Lavellan, then the struggle of loving this man, and the irony of falling in love with the Dread Wolf, just isn't so stark. Not to say other pairings or contexts can't work. They're just much harder for me to get into, as a reader.
Nailed it. I thought about it for a while and figured that one of the major appeals of Solasmance is that it definitely makes the girl feel special... Like, let's be honest here 
I usually am a bit, um, wary of such romances, in interactive stories or no, because it's really easy to mess it up, and instead of seeing the merits of a character myself, I'm reading the story that is sometimes trying to forcefully tell me that the character is special (even if just to another character) and I just don't frikking see it. The worst offenders of last years are, of course, "Twilight" and its fanfiction "50 Shades Of Gray", where the objects of interests (it's hard to call them characters, really) of main heroines seem to trip over themselves in declarations of how head-over-heals in love they are in our speshul little snowflakes.... *squiiiiiiiirms*
In DA I can accept that though, because aside from Solas being an actual character, we do have to earn both Solas's friendship and his affection - hell, we may be "Heralds of Andraste" with a special power, but unless our character makes an effort, they don't automatically earn anyone's respect aside from the amount that helps us finish the job all of Thedas expects our characters to finish anyway.
So there's that - the relationship feels special on both sides, because not only it was unexpected for Solas (he wasn't looking for it, hell he even actively avoided becoming close to the gremlins), but Lavellan actually had to prove she has value of her own (though not just in Solas's eyes) as a leader and as a character... therefore an actual ancient near-god and notorious rebel, who created the Veil, banished immortal Mage-Kings and plans to destroy the world falling for her so hard that he almost gave up everything for her (and him changing his plans isn't yet off the table!) doesn't feel like your typical romance novel 