Hi Solas fans. Pretty new here. I haven't really been on the forums since shortly before DAI launched last year, and normally I'm a lurker, but I just finished Trespasser today, finally ending my first complete playthrough of DAI. And I needed to post something, because ... because ... 
Hats off to Bioware, that literally was my nightmare ending, the worst actual thing I imagined happening. Yes, my inquisitor romanced Solas. I've never felt so sorry for any of my long-suffering Bioware PCs as I now do for her. My poor, poor Lavellan. And she seemed so ready and determined for the next stage of the fight. She told the team that they were going to try and save their friend. It just made me cry all the harder.
This is still only a couple hours fresh and I'm feeling more than a little haunted. How did y'all deal with this? Seriously, I am upset. Where do you see this story going in the future that DOESN'T make you want to curl up in a ball and whimper in sadness? 