Let me explain myself. I was sharing my personal thoughts on the matter. In hindsight I realize I may have sounded childish and over dramatic. And, for that I do apologize.
And, LBickert, you're not wrong. I do feel like it would be repeatative. I sometimes go on Youtube and watch romance videos, either to see a character's romance arc maybe because I don't have plans to romance that character; or I want to see how different options can change the romance, a different perspective. An example, in DA 2 I romanced Anders on the friendship path with a diplomatic Hawke. I then Youtube his romance and saw the rivalmance arc. It gave me a different view of his romance. That's was I was hoping for for Solas, going on Youtube and seeing the different options. Now, only a fem elf can romance him and yes while not every character is going to be the same, they're all female elves. So, it gives me the feeling that once you experience once you don't have to do it. I may be wrong, it a common occurrence for me, but that's my opinion as of right now. Could it change it the future? Of course. Nothing is set in stone. I've already decided that I am going to go ahead and play my fem elf mage as my first playthrough and romance Solas. Funny, what four hours of sleep can do.
And, I do apologize for any derailment to the thread I may have caused. I only wished to share my opinions.
I also have a feeling this might be late again. Sorry for that too.