Regarding Lavellan and heartbreak, I find the possible annihilation of Clan Lavellan and all the elves in Wycome more heartbreaking. It just pisses me off how easy it is for the humans in Thedas to turn against the elves. This is why if the game allows it, I will side with Solas if he can change the lives of the elves. I am really at the point where I don't care how many Thedosian lives will be lost in this revolution.

And what's worse, in-game, there's hardly any recognition that Lavellan has lost his/her clan. At least with the break up with Solas, we got to see it and the NPCs react to it. 
Also, I wish some war table operations like the Clan Lavellan one allowed the player to participate more. Create side quests out of it and allow the player to control other parties. I mean we are gathering all these agents but we're not actually seeing them in action.
Just venting because I am in Skyhold now and I had to carefully choose which advisors to pick for this war table operation so that my Lavellan would still have her family after Solas dumps her. 
Yeah.......poor clan Lavellan........very tragic loss there. And one that only added to the "You want to do what after everything I have dealt with?" reaction of my Lavellan with Solas.
And, don't know if you have played Trespasser but....
But otherwise...yeah, pretty shady that no one talks about it. Like TF peeps, Quizzy's family was just slaughtered like animals.
And people in Orlais dare say "Rabbit" in front of my Lavellan. Cause, clan was dead before she went off to Halamshiral to try to impress folks. Walk in and people calling her a savage.
*shakes head*
She's one tragedy away from burning Orlais to the ground I think.
And just saying, I would be pretty terrified if a fire arcane warrior was running rampant in the streets of Val Royeaux. Just.......everything on fire.....everything.

Something like that. Less smiling though.
Edit:
Ah, here we go. Looks like a lot of blood though....so spoiler