I think I'm in a point in my life where I'm happier single...I'm certainly too busy for another person in my life right now. 
Well the most important thing is that you be satisfied. I've enjoyed times of being single, generally I like being alone a lot of the time so I was never frustrated by it exactly, but I've had a tendency to sort of have a "hunt mode" on when I didn't have one or I was looking to get out, it began to annoy me that I spent so much of my time consumed with this especially considering that a lot of the time I think I'm more suited to a single life. I work better this way, though, as long as I get plenty of space and alone time (which made finding the right match a challenge to say the least) and I know that someone else is in my life to share burdens with, I'm satisfied. There's more to it of course, I mean I wouldn't enter a relationship that didn't have a deep connection, but in very simplistic terms I'd say I'm just that sort of person who craves just the right degree of companionship at all times and no more. It sounds so much more complicated writing this down, haha.
Oh, no I have a friend who despises spoilers and out of respect I'll avoid talking about specifics of a game's story. I might discuss mechanics or art style or music but not the story itself. I understand not wanting to be spoiled. But for myself it depends on what it is. Like Fallout 4 ... I haven't spoiled myself but if I came across something it wouldn't really bother me since I'm not nearly as interested in FO4 as I am in DA. But all of my friends will ask first to make sure spoilers are ok.
A different friend of mine doesn't usually mind spoilers. He played DAI and I didn't spoil him about Solas being Fen'Harel but after he finished I was like Solas is Fen'Harel! And he was like yeah, I didn't pay attention to the lore in DAO or DA2 who's Fen'Harel again? And he didn't care about spoilers so I've been talking about Trespasser and stuff with him even though he hasn't played it - and he's probably not going to.
Rambling aside, I always try to make sure spoilers are ok before talking about a game with someone.
You have good friends. ;_; I have to keep reminding mine to shut up about spoilers. It actually annoys me somewhat when I go to all that trouble to avoid spoiling someone and then it turns out that they really don't care, or the lore just doesn't grab them...
I know not everyone is as nitpicky as I am or as detail-oriented, but I still get exasperated when they don't pick up on all the nuances I do, mostly because I have such a dramatic and beautiful experience with a game like this and I want to share that with them. It's disappointing to find out that their level of involvement doesn't match mine, so I can't help but feel they got short-changed and missed some of the best things about the game. A lot of the time I wish I didn't care quite so much.