Yeah... my boyfriend played DAI around the same time as me, but he's dwarf-obsessed and rolled a female Qunari who romanced Iron Bull, while I'm elf-obsessed and rolled a female elf who romanced Solas. He kept gushing about how fun and funny Bull and the Chargers are, and I kept gushing about how much I loved Solas and all the elfiness.
After I badgered him long enough about what he thought about Solas, all I really got was, "He's... all right. Really smart guy, but kinda boring, arrogant, and kinda racist..." And I'm like, "*sigh* I know...
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My beau's opinion of Solas could probably be summed up in this Manly Guys Doing Manly Things comic strip, with a little dash of this panel on the side.
Oh, why am I always attracted to guys like that...
I've been having this same discussion since years, pretty much every time a new game comes along. (Or movie. Or book. Or anything, really.)
Oh, this. This is one of many issues I have w/current relationship. I wouldn't want to be smothered myself, but I want to build a life together and live with someone and do all that, for good and bad, and I had him suggest permanent separate residences again today (not for the first time). While I'm reasonably certain I'm leaving when I can, something I should've done much sooner, you're right that your arrangement is valuable if you can find that balance and both be satisfied. I can vouch for the difficulty. And being the other type, it can feel a lot like being taken for granted or only wanted if/when convenient.
This reminds me that I probably need to do another comedy text barf after all.
Oh, I've had an absolutely miserable time balancing this out. I'm completely introverted, and luckily so is my partner to a degree, so at least he has the capacity to understand that I need "recharge time" which - depending on how much of my energy was depleted in everyday life - might take days or weeks to complete. I'm pretty sure I'm quite a difficult person to live with, but I try to not let myself "run amok" in terms of getting lost in my own brain. The biggest issue we had was making our clocks compatible, though, I'm a night person and he's emphatically not. I'm still working on it after years of being together and we still get sparks of anger going off about this sort of thing, but overall I think that we managed to adapt to each other well enough. I, too, want to build a life together and all that, but I'm always afraid that I'm just not right for that, not in a traditional sense, because so much of my life is being absorbed in completely different worlds.
Well, it's Trespasser. It's important to be able to wallow in the experience...
Bioware really needs to put in a pause functionality for cutscenes in DA4. The number of times I've had to reload or just give up on listening to conversations just because someone wanders in and chats with me while I'm playing... It would also be fantastic for screenshots.
YES. I SO want this. I would never miss important dialogues again! ![]()





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