Bleah... I spilled tea all over my laptop this morning and, after letting it dry, it's still non-functional. I was watching Trespasser Solas romance endings when it happened, because I couldn't remember if he says that line about enjoying the time she has left (he doesn't - not for a romanced Inquisitor). Anyway... I play my games on my desktop computer, and I have a save just before walking through the Eluvian after defeating Saarath so I just replayed it. And so here are some a lot of screen captures (not in order).
My Lavellan was a mature hunter (rogue) in her late 20s or early 30s; curious, quite self-possessed and with a good sense of humour. She won't take any crap, even from an ancient elven mage with godlike powers!
Faolchu Ban (what the humans call her) / Fentelban (her actual name) looks for Solas
If looks could kill. (Fentelban always looks a little fierce... probably why her parents named her 'white wolf'.)
Pouty Solas
Solas looks reproachful
This question pretty much sums up the past three years of the Inquisitor's life.
Two wolves, worlds apart.
Snarky Solas is snarky. I got that you disapproved of that decision years ago.
You've already become it.
Something neat that I hadn't noticed before (surprising, since I have played the end through about 30 times, probably) is that whatever option you choose for Lavellan at the beginning of the conversation sets her facial expressions for the rest of the conversation. So, if you pick the angry "You lied to me!" response, she always looks a little angry. But if you take the more openminded "My people were wrong about you" response, she looks more cool and collected. I bet she looks more sad if you pick the "Ironically, yes" response.