I've had 4 play throughs with Nia so far and I tried to make a different character to romance Solas but it just didn't feel right.
I romanced Alistair with 2 characters only because he wouldn't marry my Tabris and I was genuinely upset about it at the time.
So I created a Cousland for him. Then I replayed my Tabris and got to stay as his mistress.
I have trouble playing different Hawkes too. I kind of have a set male and female Hawke that I stick with.
Hmmm...I don't have this problem with going through the same romance with multiple characters, mostly because only my first time really counts for me.
My first play through of a BioWare game is always my canon. My first play through in Origins was a female Tabris. Fortunately, I just couldn't make my unhardened Alistair king, so I didn't experience the Landsmeet dumping. I played a Cousland and romanced Alistair again for kicks, but that didn't really count (nor did my male Amell who romanced Zevran). Usually I play through once completely unspoiled and then play again (or load strategic saves) just to explore game content. Oddly enough, with DAI I haven't been compelled to explore any of the non-Solas romance options with any characters, so I've played 3 Solasmancers
. 1. My canon play through, 2. My competitionist nightmare run, and 3. Recreating my canon play through after switching to PC (I did save the clan the last time, but they'll always be dead in my heart). My male Lavellan play through is doomed to never be completed I fear. Meh, I'll just use the Keep.
I feel lucky I went with Solas during my first run. Going through his romance when you already know his secret must not be as...magical...intense...puzzling...I don't know.
Not at all - I acknowledged there was a difference. It's why I said Shepard makes a better comparison than any DA protagonist.
And aren't they pretty similar? Having to decide to save all that they know and love, or accepting some horrific future where everything's going wrong. Having to destroy countless lives, maybe even countless innocents (Mortals for Solas, Geth and such for Shepard.) in order to achieve a "happy" ending? Unable to simply foist the decision onto someone else, because there is no one else. This is their duty, and they are alone in it.
You could argue it's different because Shepard's actually saving the galaxy from the Reapers, whereas Solas is just a jerk who can't accept change. But, there's two things there - 1, we don't know the full extent of Solas' motivations. He explicitly refuses to tell us why he must do this (Which is why I'm a bit unsure about simply saying "He should forget it and just help the modern elves."), and 2, It's still a matter of perspective. A future besieged by Reapers and riddled with chaos could be as bad to Shepard as modern Thedas is to Solas.
I agree that Solas and Shepard are faced with similar situations.
You're right be don't know the full extent of Solas' motivations. I'm inclined to think that he is always just trying to save The People. For example, I have a feeling he needs to do something or the elves who are sleeping masked behind a mirror will die. Considering the state of the Crossroads, I think the clock might be ticking. Who knows how many ancient elves are waiting in euthenera. Sure, maybe they could wake up and live short mortal lives, but that would seem unacceptable (facing an unjust end before one's time) to people who lived thousands of years expecting to live forever (unless they had to fight a duel on behalf of a god or something
). It all depends on your point of view.
Now, if no ancient elves' lives are on the line--if Solas is simply deciding to recreate the world of the Elvhen--then sure, Solas just has issues coping with change. Considering that he thinks the modern people will be destroyed in order to restore what was lost, I'm inclined to think there are ancient elves who will die if he does nothing. If that is not the case, what would be the point? There would be no Elvhen to live in the restored magical world...just Solas and maybe a few sentinels...only Solas walks the Din'anshiral, so he'll be dead too. 