I am so glad you wrote this. I was beginning to think I was the only one in the fandom who wasn't all gooey eyed about the idea of Solas playing house/having kids. Now let me disclaimer that by saying if that's your thing, what you want to imagine, awesome. Go you. That's your thing. However, I kind of cringe every time I see fan-art with him pictured as a dad or whatever. Not because I think he'd be a bad father, I think he would be patient and good and all that jazz but I don't see him wanting to be a father. Like you said I see him becoming restless no matter how much he loved the kid(s).
It feels forced. I wish more people could accept that not everyone's "fairy tale" ending involves a white picket fence and 2.5 kids.
Sorry ranted.
Again, if that's your fairy tale ending cool. Just not mine and not how I see Solas. Personal opinion and all that, just releived I'm not the only one haha
Yeah, I mean - I haven't got anything against that interpretation of Solas either, but it's not one I really see. It's not even the father thing, really - I can see a Solas who wants kids and enthusiastically tries to have one with Lavellan when things settle down. I can see a Solas who wants kids but thinks his preferred lifestyle isn't suited for it, and so refuses to actually entertain the idea. And I can see a Solas who just... isn't too into the idea, period.
But I have a lot of trouble seeing a Solas who would just give up on seeking knowledge, seeing the world, witnessing history - just to get that white picket fence with Lavellan. I know we like to joke a lot about the break-up and how it came out of nowhere, but to me... I wasn't that blindsided, to be honest. I never took Solas for someone who would settle down, and half-expected for him to continue with his life of isolation and travel after the game (This being before I found out he was the Dread Wolf) while the Inquisitor would probably have to stick around and, y'know, inquisit things.
Now, I wasn't expecting for Lavellan to be cut off cold turkey. I was expecting something like "I must go, but we can still have fade dates and stuff, and I'll show up in person whenever I can." Of course, I also wasn't expecting him to be Fen'Harel, or bent on this world's destruction and rebirth, so, most of my expectations have been sort of totally demolished.
It occurs to me that I had this same problem after Origins came out, and everyone was mad at Alistair for breaking it off with their Warden when "We could've had a fairytale ending!"
And here I was with my Surana like "YEAH! I got DUMPED! GIMME THAT ANGST, BIOWARE!"