No, I'm pointing to many examples of individuals that points to a larger pattern. People criticize something about Andrastian characters and institutions? The devs go out of their way to make them more sympathetic or remove their flaws next game.
So far, I've pointed out a lot of examples of the devs addressing fan criticism of Andrastian characters and/or making them more sympathetic in specific ways in subsequent games. Cullen was anti-mage in DAO and DA2? He's pro-mage in DAI. Giselle was distrustful of Dorian for being Tevinter in DAI? She's over it by Trespasser. Sera was so anti-elf that she LAUGHS at a grief-stricken Lavellan regarding vallaslin in DAI? Suddenly she's much more mature and doesn't gloat about negative elven revelations in Trespasser.
But so far you haven't given me ONE example of the devs going out of their way to make the Dalish or "elfy elves" more sympathetic, or address or show a different side to specific criticisms about the Dalish or elfy elves.
It's not "people criticize something about ANDRASTIAN characters" - they criticize something about characters that happen to be Andrastian (and also the ones that are obviously important to the plot). Big difference here and one that I kept trying to point out a few times already.
And yes - even with all the revelations about ancient elves and misconceptions the Dalish have I don't really see how Hawen's little clan or Inquisitor's clan is NOT a positive portrayal. They have their reservations, they're not cartoonishly good or bad - they're just people who, after making sure that your intentions are different from human armies surrounding them, decide to help you out; and even if you provide evidence that the Red Crossing incident was more complicated than either sides thought, THEY'RE the ones who accept the truth and reach out to people, even if they're ready to use the peace offering against the Dalish.
And that's sort of the thing - people and groups who show openness, willingness to change or accept are generally rewarded for it, be it narratively or in terms of portrayal. Everyone, including the Dalish - excluding those who are too mistrustful or isolationist.
Like... has it ever occurred to you that those Dalish or 'elfy elves' are NOT in the right? Like, why Bioware, who is generally about openness and open-mindedness should support people who are all about isolationism and sometimes even elven supremacy?
If anything, they go the opposite route; they go out of their way to make them less sympathetic. The new "only three mages per clan and the rest get left to die" rule, where in previous games Dalish mage children were cherished?
I wouldn't say it's "new", given that Merril was third in her clam to be born with magical gifts and was traded to another clan to be First there and can be considered a variant of this rule. That's basically a politics of Clan Lavellan as well (I'd like to point out that both Lavellan and Alerion clans are clans outside of Ferelden or Orlais), which we can hear about when we talk with Minaeve. It's obviously not Minaeve's old clan politics - but that's sort of the thing. Ever since DAO and through various stories the Dalish has been established as differing wildly form one another. Even Zathrian's clan was a unique one, given their immortal Keeper.
The revelation that the Chantry was indeed right about the elves attacking Red Crossing, vindicating their Exalted March against the Dales?
Seriously? The whole thing has been painted as misunderstanding culminating in a moment when tensions ran high. It's obvious when you read the document. If anything, the willingness of the Chantry to push all the blame on the elves has been portrayed to reflect negatively on the Chantry!
The reveal that ancient elven "gods" were both evil and false at the Temple of Mythal and Trespasser, and the elven religion being indeed barbaric like the Chantry claims in the Temple of Dirthamen?
... What does that has anything to do with "negative portrayal"? The elvhen gods either way are more real than the Maker, while one of the founding myths of Andrastian faith, where Maker creates the Veil in order to separate the Fade and spirits from Maker's beloved children has been pretty much entirely undermined.
So it's hardly as one-sided as you're trying to present it. The idea behind deconstructing pretty much the myths and legends of pretty much ALL people of Thedas - humans, elves or dwarves - are wrong about the nature of their world, or either misinterpret or misunderstand many things about it. In fact, ironically, the Dalish - as Solas said - may remember 'fragments of fragments, but it's still more than most'.
The game going out of its way to hide Gaspard's, Celene's, and Michel's more dastardly qualities from the book, while at the same time hiding Briala's sympathetic qualities in order to shoe-horn in some "all three have equal shades of grey" nonsense for the Winter Palace quest?
You call it 'nonsense' I call it 'an interesting way to make a decision that will never be perfect'. All candidates have skeletons in closets or problems and I enjoy it till now that people are discussing which option would actually be best, or worst, for Orlais or Thedas, given that we're not outright given a clear BW's favorite.
I'm not seeing ANY examples of the devs trying to make the elves more sympathetic after revealing tons of not-so-nice information about them, while I'm seeing PLENTY of examples of the devs trying to soften or excuse Andrastian characters and institutions acting not-so-nice.
... Or, you're either ignoring examples I've provided, or for you they're not "good enough" to be considered ones, while at the same time outright ignoring all the bad things revealed about the Chantry. I mean, you may be salty about revealing the Elves chose not to help Drakon during Blight, but I don't see you mentioning that the fault of the Chantry trying to scratch out *yet another* elf AND mage (and a very positive portrayal of a Dalish elf as well) out of history books has been a much bigger point BW as making through that story. It's the same with Avvar approach to magic, which pretty much goes against Chantry's rhetoric. There's even Colette, a brave assistant of Kenric, who makes it her point to show just how difficult it is for elves to be taken seriously, even on academic field, which is yet another hit against humans/Orlais/Andrastians.
That's not even getting into the player having no choice but to hear advisers and companions soften or excuse the Chantry's, Seeker's, and Templars' bad qualities when you uncover bad things about them.
... That's another exaggeration. Even if you're talking with people who are obviously biased (like Cass or Cullen) at best they provide their perspective, or even admit to having bias. Quite a lot of them offer their own criticisms, or even agree with some of, say, Inquisitor's or Solas's or Dorian's negative remarks. Even Cullen's entire struggle with lyrium addiction has been portrayed by the story as yet another hit against the Chantry. Cass' personal quest? Also pretty much all against Chantry/Seekers.
As for occasional points FOR Chantry/Andrastians... I fail to see how this is bad, given that they DON'T generally have the best reputation among the players.
Meanwhile, the only two or three characters we have to represent the elven view are Solas, Sera, and Minaeve, all of whom do nothing but badmouth elven culture, especially Dalish culture, and (in the latter two's case) sing the praises of Andrastism and the Circles.
Sera sings praises of Andrastianism? ... What? Inquisitor can even tell her to keep questioning all that religious nonsense. Sera obviously declares herself as Andrastian, but never in the story I've heard her praising Andrastianism or the Chantry, in fact she explicitly states that one of main reasons of her initially joining Inquisition is to see if anything about that religion is true ... only to readily dismiss some things to be "true true" after Heaven, because not even zealots want some things to be actual truth. She mocks many things, including religion or religious figures and in the end offers help of Red Jenny *only* if the Divine is either Leliana or Cassandra, which are people she actually likes.
And if anything she's an excellent portrayal of internalized racism (and instilled fear of magic) stemming from how she was treated by people she surrounded herself with... which is mostly humans and Andrastianism
And both in her and Solas's case the point they're trying to make is that they don't want to be pigeonholed or expected to act certain way, be it by people from or out their presumed cultural circle. Which, if you ask me, is generally a good thing.
And Minaeve's story is not really that different from Wynne's story - and it's yet again a tragic tale of how fear of magic (humans Minaeve stumbled upon didn't help her; instead they've called for Templars to deal with her); which is a thing most definitely conditioned by Andrastian beliefs and Chantry only makes some of mages accept their gilded cage as the only relatively safe place for them in (Southern) Thedas. The point of her story is not as much that she's a rejected Dalish, but that the prejudice against magic is prevalent in the South and that Circle's grip on many mages is not much physical, as it's psychological.
What's more, when we learn not-so-nice things about Dalish and/or elven culture, like Abelas badmouthing the Dalish to Lavellan, there is NEVER a pro-Dalish character to balance out the anti-Dalish perspective we just learned the way there is always a pro-Andrastian character on hand to balance out the anti-Andrastian or anti-Chantry perspecrtive we just learned. If anything, Sera or Solas are often right there to confirm, "Yeah, that's just another example of why the Dalish suck."
Saying that Abelas (or in fact Solas) is "badmouthing" the Dalish is very much a stretch. Like... what do you expect him to do, when they're NOT "his people" for one reason or another? And I'm not even talking about the whole magical-spirity theories we have about nature of elves/ancient elves we have here - just the fact that it's been *thousands* of years since Elvenhan fell, while both Abelas and Sentinels linger in a dead temple, pretty much frozen in time, loyal but alien, frustrated and fatalistic.
Like... at this point you sort of sound as if you wanted the story to confirm that almost everything the Dalish believed in is true. Which it IS... in a sense. So I fail to see what's the issue - unless it's negative because the elven culture doesn't happen to be a lost paradise or something? Or because the truth doesn't vindicate the Dalish and their generally isolationist and "true elven" ways?
I fail to see how Dalish being wrong about things from their past is supposed to be such a large move against them by BW, when the story makes it clear that pretty much everyone is wrong in one way or another.