On our terms, that's what we want. I'm saying that other people are metagaming for us. They're are telling us how to play, outside of the game.
No, that's not at all what we're doing.
We're not telling you how to play your game.
We're disagreeing with the request for The Chart based upon personal preference.
There's a huge difference between saying "No you are absolutely not allowed to do the thing," and saying "No I don't think I'd like that to be a thing that happens." This thread is about asking if the Biodevs can release a list of who can or can't be romanced. Which is fine, but some of us folks would rather not know. What's happening, is when ever someone disagrees, those folks who want to see this "Chart" seem to think we're attacking them for their choices. Which, outside of perhaps one single poster in this thread, isn't happening.
I don't want The Chart to be a thing. I completely understand WHY folks want it. I'm not judging folks who want it, I just would rather not have it prior to release. Or heck, If they do plan to release it I'd much rather it be pushed back to a week or so prior to release. I'd personally like to go into the game with out that particular knowledge, because romances are a big deal to me. Just like how some folks want that information for the same exact reason.
Some folks enjoy metagaming. I'm okay with that. I enjoy metagaming. I also enjoy NOT metagaming my first playthrough. I enjoy spoiling myself a little bit (as per why I'm here posting in the first place), but I also do my best to reduce the amount of information I'm exposed to. I don't frequent the story discussion boards. As such I felt it prudent to voice said feelings by politely disagreeing with the request to release The Chart.
Please don't take my (or anyone elses) disagreement as an attack on you. If you absolutely feel someone IS attacking you, report them instead of arguing with them.
It's perfectly okay to want to have that knowledge. Just as it's perfectly okay to not want that information. Half the reason I don't want that information released is because It'll force a lot of folks who are excited and want to discuss the game off the boards. Because it wont stay inside the story discussion section. It'll be everywhere. In these forums, Facebook, Tumblr, Twitter... and it's very very frustrating to have to cut myself off of pretty much all forums of communication because people are excited for any news of new juicy information. And while I know at some point I will have to, I'd much rather it be later then sooner.