Fem Mage Ophelia (Lia) Adaar
1) who would wake the other one up with kisses?
Varric, my Quizzy is not a morning person, but can be quite mischievous and likes to turn the tables sometimes.
2) who cooks for who?
My Quizzy cooks, she finds it relaxing and loves doing it.
3) who is the morning/night person?
Varric is morning, Lia is a night owl.
4) who is the romantic one?
Varric, as Lia is quite awkward when it comes to romantic moments, although she tries her best with amusing, clumsy attempts.
5) who is the jealous one?
Varric, Lia is quite laid back, plus a jealous Varric is amusing.
6) Who would lead in ballroom dancing?
Varric, as Lia is hopeless on the dance floor and tends to panic when asked to dance.- Like myself. 
7) who is the more cuddly one?
Lia is and tends to surprise Varric and others with random cuddle attacks.- Varric secretly enjoys this.
8) who is more likely the choose the movies books?
Lia is an avid book reader but is quite stubborn about what books she reads, however she lets Varric read his books to her as she likes the sound of his voice and it keeps him happy.
9) who is the one that pays for the dates?
Both pay half, unless Varric can distract Lia long enough to sneakily pay by himself.
10) who would initiate a quickie during a mission?
Varric, though if it wasn't an important or dangerous mission, Lia would subtly encourage his attempts.
And if she can't have Varric as a LI, she'll keep him as a friend and Ride the Bull instead, though I can see a lot of clashing between Lia and Bull at first.