Ok. I'm going to take this slow so that you understand me! There is nothing wrong with voicing your honest opinion. Nothing!
But. Sometimes you need to be aware that you may need to word it in a way that won't sound aggressive, gloating or rude. For example: I think that Varric is one fine piece of man. I could just say that, or I could say something like: Varric is the hottest guy out there, all dem other characters look butt ugly in comparison because they don't have his glorious chesthair.
Now, if I were to go into another character thread and wanted to express my opinion on Varric's looks; how do you think people would react if I posted the first or the second option?
Glad you think there is nothing with voicing an opinion, good we can agree on that.
But to be honest? Me being bombarded by people, telling me that my indifference was hurtful only made me slightly annoyed to be honest, I go out of my way to explain and it doesn't even help. I honestly don't care if he is a LI or not, i can view several reasons why it would be a bad thing, and several why it possibly could be a good thing, but ultimately i don't care much, He isn't much of an appeal to me, as a LI, The Character however has appeal.
And for clarification, I wasn't gloating, Rude or Aggressive, it was indifference, plain old indifference.
In conclusion, i really don't think there was much grief caused; A Gifs got spammed, but other then that every one seems fine.