Our "crazy" is just us not taking ourselves seriously, instead of rudely shutting people down. 
Amen to that. The only time I've ever said to someone that "No, this romance isn't happening, stop it," was when folks kept asking for a Cole romance.
Saddest part? Some of those folks came up with some (YMMV) decent reasons to have him as an asexual romance, then would proceed to tell those that talked about Varric that he's "still too hung up on Bianca" to have a romance. Some with varying degrees of politeness.
Yes, you read that right: Cole, a spirit/demon thingy with a child-like mind that has the body of an unhealthy man bordering on nearly a corpse, had a better chance according to some posters than Varric.
Varric, who is a full grown adult, definitely a dwarf, extremely hot, very popular and a character that DG had said after DA2 came out would have made a good romance.
Every time some of the more serious nay-sayers try to get me down, I think about DG talking about Varric being a decent romance. The words, "If I had known the way he would turn out," echo through my mind. Now, I know he didn't write Varric, but it gives me some hope.
Again, I just don't understand people sometimes. Cole=plausible; Varric=off the table due to a lost love he hasn't seen in over a decade.
I'm sooo glad that Mike Laidlaw put a stop to the "Cole as a LI" nonsense at the Q&A.