Hah, I'm not much older than you but you've got me beat by a few years.
I consider 20's = young. Mostly because when I complain about starting to feel old people still laugh at me. XD
I totally know what you mean about Blackwall. I'm not going to deny my hesitancy, and even sometime before this I was thinking I wouldn't at all -- but I'm preparing myself for my inevitable curiosity... because in a weird way, I appreciate sad stuff? I don't know how to explain it. XD; That's not saying I hope it's sad or anything! Oh... I should stop or I'll just be rambling forever lol
Haha, I've gotten laughed at a few times for saying stuff like "when I was a kid" (which I always mean the age 3-5 years in this context).
People are always like "what are you talking about? You're STILL a kid."
Me: Well, yeah..but I'm not a KID KID!! O_O
>.>
So I'm stoked for the Blackwall ordeal and bummed for others who are unable to have him. My husband may have said "yay" in a high-pitched voice.
Any who, wanted y'all here to know that this thread was wonderful and I enjoyed coming here daily.
However, I told myself that the moment the final LI abd race-gate was revealed that I'd delete my account. I'm not a fan of social media in a whole.
I'll miss you guys though. 
Aww, bye Vim! I'm gonna follow your lead pretty soon but not until everything settles down. I hope you come back to visit the thread after you beat the game! I know *I* will be, there'll be so much to talk about! 
Happy 20th Chesty,
I get the Blackwall thing, I'm 24-nearly 25- and it feels weird for me as well, in a older man, doomed romance way so I'll probably save his romance for last if I ever do it.
Thanks! 
Wait, I just realized that I'm probably gonna romance Solas and isn't he like 40+? Hmmm....But maybe I'm okay with Solas because he looks really young and Blackwall gives me some serious father/mentor vibes. *taps chin thoughtfully* Yeah, that's what it is..
Edit: Omg, I didn't realize that was you Solaria! I was sitting here like: "Ooooh, we got another newcomer to the thread, yay!" XD Only reason why I knew who it was is because your avatar is still the same. haha