For all those saying that sometimes you just don't aways get something tailored to your wants. I agree on this point. However I think it is a poor decision by bioware to ignore a widely held view in this regard. As I said earlier, things will always slip through the cracks however those issues should be less important than an ideological view that holds very real repercussions in the current world state.
I get that you won't always get what you want with a love interest, but it is a poor choice by bioware to deny male characters who wish to romance a female the option of an anti-chantry love interest. This is not something of small importance like personalites and looks. It is a world-view that is featured prominently in this world. The only options a male character who wishes to romance a female have is those who are pro-chantry/return to the status quo.
So far, the only possible interest (who is the only non-human female companion by the way) who would support a revolution of the world status quo is sera.
It's not that I'm disappointed that my own preference is ignored though I am. Rather it is the fact that the only love interests for males pursuing a female do not offer much variety. They all support the status-quo. They all are in one spectrum of the world. To give an analogy, it would be like if all the males in the world were against a woman's right to vote. In this case, all the female companions in the game that are romanceable are against the complete freedom of mages.
Dragon Age; Origins did it right. Morrigan was one end of the spectrum. Leliana the other. Alistair was on one end of the Spectrum. Zevran did not care.
Its not about not "getting what I want." Rather it's a disappointment in a lack of variety. All the females can fall into one category.