I'll point out that I said "responses that say X." Because that's exactly (word for word, in many cases) what the responses read. Many (I'd wager a majority, especially starting out) of the statements were exactly "I wouldn't buy it."
Yes well, if I took responses always to what they say word for word, I don't think I'd be doing a good job. Otherwise when someone says BioWare is lazy, they literally mean we don't work hard as opposed to they mean the thing they are critiquing doesn't look as well as they'd prefer. Or that when we don't listen, they actually mean that we're oblivious to what they say (despite the fact they're talking directly to me or someone else) when they really mean to say that they feel the direction we're moving in is not in alignment , or that they actually feel our writers are incompetent because they often have to have characters cut.
As for the quotes, lets look at the first posts (bold emphasises are mine):
"I might not buy the game to be honest"
"I'd be really unhappy. I actually don't know if I'd still buy it."
"Wouldn't bother me at all"
"Romances are what makes Bio games excellent.... Without romances Bio games would be much poorer." (I can't discern how it affects their willingness to purchase, but I'll take it as a negative)
"It wouldn't bother me either."
"I'd be put out, but it wouldn't stop me from buying the game."
"Personally, I don't care either way. I can play with or without romances."
"Well, romance, specifically same-sex romance, is what makes me favour Bioware games... If the romance element was taken out of a Bioware game, then I would be disappointed, and I probably wouldn't buy it, unless that title offered something else that piqued my interest"
"So long Bioware warn people before the release that there won't be romance, I'll be fine."
"Personally I would be completely fine without it."
"I would still buy it, but I would spend much less time playing it."
"Romance ain't the reason I buy the game."
"don't even play like thattttt" (I'll take this one as a negative)
"But for DA4 and beyond, I don't care if romances are available."
"I would be extremely disappointed if they weren't there."
That is the first 15 responses (excluding posters that posted multiple times). Of that, 9 of them state they wouldn't care or would still buy even if disappointed.
So no, the statements were not exactly "wouldn't buy it." You can probably find some other sort of cutoff that would make it a majority, but I picked 15 because it was the closest multiple of 5 that went to the end of my page. It doesn't seem like your recollection is accurate, but rather that your perception (and the inherent biases within it) have skewed your impression into overstating a particular viewpoint representation. Note that this isn't that uncommon, PBS Myth 6 details an experiment where teachers forced themselves to give 50/50 attention between boys and girls, and the boys felt the girls received upwards of 90% of the attention.
Yes. Except I've usually just been told "deal with it." But that's an entirely different discussion.
I'm not sure it is a different discussion. Plenty of romance people get told to deal with it. Further, any chance that people perceive your comments to be equivalent to you telling them to just deal with it? Additionally, is there jadedness that you're told to deal with it while you feel that romance people are exempt from such responses?
It still didn't surprise me in the least. Nor does it make any less of a huge mountain for Bioware to climb if you ever decided to not include it, for whatever reasons. That's the thrust of my post, I suppose. Not that I find it incredulous that people like the romances or that there is value in them that I do not share, but that people behave to the suggestion of taking them out in exactly the way I'd expect and that it makes it nearly impossible to separate Bioware from its romance content going forward in future titles.
What I get out of the discussion is that people would, for the most part, be open to it as long as the game still delivered on emotional engagement, LGBTQ representation, and a focus on the companions/party members, because that's why they play our games. Why do our interpretations vary so much, especially since I'm on the record in that thread (numerous times) as saying that romance content is not a requirement for me.