Having an NPC character isn't great, but I think your pretense is ridiculous. You didn't even wait until it was confirmed the last male was bisexual before complaining women are getting a worse deal than gay men. For all either of us know, they are straight and you're getting more options. All remaining options may be guys and you could be getting more options than anyone. That could easily happen right now. Straight women got the most options in DA2.
I also can't help but roll my eyes when you say gay men are being favored and also say it's "just like mass effect". The game series where gay men didn't have a romance at all until the last game and one was an NPC. 
I will support your claim that everyone should get equal options, I'm totally for that. I'll even say that I hope no one gets an NPC exclusive romance again. But when you start acting indignant because in one game ever you might get equal or questionably less options than gay men, it means there's been some major trespass against you and you're being overshadowed by gay rights, I'm going to think you're being absurd. Your complaints ring hollow when you dramatize them because the truth is that your representation, as a heterosexual female, is no where near as invisible as a gay male (or a lesbian). Just look at Mass Effect as a whole and that's obvious. We're not in the same boat and we never have been. I want you to get equal options and I've always been vocal for that, but the way you frame your argument is insulting.
I said that males have been favored, and they have. You get to be the heroes. You get usually better back stories. You get better armor. You've gotten cooler weapons. You get hotter characters (mostly because of software limitation on hair), but males which you are (gay men are men) have always had things better in gaming.
Most of the games don't have romances. Bioware is different, so you have always had more representation because you have a penis between your legs.
Because companies like Bioware are trying to "do the right thing" (which is great because most aren't) they are careful not to make the gay male characters anything less than whatever warrior the straight guys get. There are no gay caricatures (maybe Wade but he's a NPC) and you're treated just the same. Lesbians not so much. This is the same in comic books. They get tagged with the same voluptuous sex kitten or pixie waif. What possible good does large boobs do for Wonder Woman? Isabella's boobs would have fallen right out of her blouse.
And as far as sexuality goes, I am in a heterosexual relationship, but I have not always been in one and I'll leave it at that. What I am now is dependent upon who I am with. I am heterosexual now. I don't believe people are gay or straight, but are "mostly" something. I think Kinsey was right, but that's another story and not fit for this board.
And, yes, I'm sorry but whether it was bunker PR on DAII or not, some of the wording coming out of Bioware in regards to inclusiveness comes from a male POV.
It's not Sera that if you go to Google and search on DA Inquisition and "news" that you read about, it's Dorian. It will say Dorian is the first "legitimately gay" character aside from Sera. Which to me is says a lot, that lesbians are not really gay or something.
This idea that lesbianism is attractive and favored by straight guys, I think, has a lot to do with the females looks in these stories. It's also why people think that you can treat lesbians like straight guys, indistinguishable, is why they don't have to talk about how excited they are to provide gay characters "finally" in spite of the fact that there have been lesbians in these games.
Women are used to playing guys so if we want to romance a female, its par for the course. You let guys have to play a female and they whine about it. We've done it to the point of not thinking about it anymore.
Right now, Bioware is excited about being able to include gay characters (as they should be) and still make money. This must be a relief for gay writers and developers. Awesome. But while they're fleshing out these great gay characters for men and talking about it, it would be nice if they think about 1/2 of the gaming population that pays as much money as all the guys combined with fewer options.
And I'm sorry that you feel insulted but at least you didn't pay money to read this post.