First off, I agree that ME3 was horrible. I agree that Bioware/game industry has a history of favoring the straight male half.
However, I've always felt the team for the Dragon Age series at least does something about it. They have a lot of women on the team especially in the writing department ( though I wish some of them would take center stage like Gaider, and not because a bunch of angry white straight males are trying to destroy her). In DA2 they really did fan service to hell and back for female fans as much as they fan serviced for the male half (Which perceptively pissed off the male half).
Though I agree, the broody, dark, over dramatic male character has run it's course, I got official sick of Anders crap with Legacy and as much as I liked Fenris, I'd rather not see another like him. Sebastian was an up, but because of my own Christian upbringing around guys like that, meh. I loved Thane from the Mass Effect series for only appearing to be in that broody boat but not really unless you screwed up his loyalty mission.
As a straight woman, I honestly can't say I feel super strong about any of the male characters presented so far, but as I've said before I'm taking everything with a grain of salt and waiting to see the full game. If I ultimately don't like any of them for romantic plot, that's okay because other people seem to like them alot and if they are well rounded characters, I'll be happy. The female characters seem extremely awesome so far, and Sera is my favorite so far. If the female characters are completely awful in the full game, then I'll be feminist pissed.
Some of my favorite RPGS in the world, don't have romance subplot period (Though KOTOR2 falls under favoring the male half so much that the female half literally has nothing, not even a lesbian option). So it's not the end of the world for me, especially since fan fiction can fix that if I feel like writing something in. (The courier and Boone totally hooked up a few years after New Vegas)
As much as I see the cause of your concern here, I have to agree with the others that it's more of a "No one is my cup of tea" complaint than a gender equality endeavor. This game is not like ME3 in which a male LI just random cheats and leaves because he can't possibly be expected to wait like the ten other LI do, and another that just ultimately exists for a death scene only. Then both are replaced with more options for male Shepard. They have made the numbers pretty equal so far and thus equal just makes it feel more limited.
People complained too much about everyone being a bisexual option (and in my opinion the only person that really constantly made it that apparent was Isabela), now instead of having about a dozen options, you only get about two, if that even, while Bioware tries to get something specific in for everyone's specific sexuality.
People either need to just deal with it or get over the whole bisexual thing.