Translation: Your "crowd" is crap because the mods know oh so much about everything and everyone. That you should find different people to hangout with because they are such an imperfect significance. To trust the mods' judgement because they can read and comprehend every poster so well. They *know* that they are right and you are wrong. No matter what you say or attempt to do, they really don't care.
Some of us have been on here for years, and the mods don't believe that people are subject to change. If you screwed up or "got carried away with jokes" one time or even a few times in the past, you are forever branded as a "trouble maker". Even if you literally had nothing to do with the current new issue at hand.
They perceive satirical humor like a plague and they attempt to "quarantine" it by shipping people off into the "rotten apple" group. And going crazy on the ban and finger pointing hammers.
As I said before, the mods will just dodge the concern here and proceed to "educate" us on how our perception is wrong and theirs is right. Almost feels like they possess apprehension towards change or fear to know how bad of a job they're really doing. Instead of actually trying to work issues out, they just ban you and delete your post. Oh yeah, what a great way to solve problems.
The mods also don't understand (even after being told multiple times) that to some people, this site is.. was, like a home or a retreat.
As I mentioned, some people have been on this site for sometime. Some really really amazing friendships are made here. I've known people on here that ended up dating, meeting up, being together for years. End up getting married and have kids together. Living together. And they met on this site.
So when the BSN turns into the Third Reich, of course some of us are going to get defensive and turn out twisted sense of humor towards the mods.
But some of us just gave up after awhile. Abandoned our profiles. All the perfect moments were gone. Everything mattered just became covered in dust.
And now when we come back on here once every few weeks to a few months, we are automatically under indictment of being involved with something recent that the mods didn't agree with.
It's a damn shame honestly. The mods lack conviction and they damn well know it.