Based on the information we've got, people claim that they love these characters and want to do all sorts of naughty things to them, so surely someone can decide that they dislike a character based off that same information?
That's a fair point. I think it'd be best if these kinds of threads are not put in such terms, which is why people get tired and frustrated at that fact. I mean, every single companion has their flaws and I remember people complaining about similar things before the release of Origins and 2. It's exactly the same. Then no one complained after release because the romances were awesome despite appearance or personality (outline of personality) gripes.
Yes, the companion threads where people swoon and sigh over the sexy men and women can be seen as the same shallowness... but I disagree with that. They are more open to the possibilities rather than outright rejecting them, which is why I see them as different mindsets. Close-mindedness instead of open-mindedness. People see a character, go, "oh, they seem cool" and if they aren't interested, say why and go about their merry way.
Anyway, the OP has it's all sorted out. Our work here is done.